Slacking bridesmaids.

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013


You still have have a few months, it’s annoying and I understand the frustration, my sister was equally useless, she got her shoes 2 days before the wedding. So I get that, but you don’t have to worry about running out of time yet.

How about, waiting to see if they get them tomorrow and if not, tell them they have till mid november or you’ll get them for them and get them to reimburse you. Not ideal but it’s the best I can come up with, matbe some other bees will have a better idea.

Post # 4
2915 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

At this point I would just go with the idea that if they don’t get them, they are out. I probably would ask them if they went on Friday, and if not I would completely drop it. It sucks that they can’t follow through, but the situation is not without hope.

When we went BM dress shopping the store said we had just made it in the sense that they needed 6 months for the dresses to come in. They ended up coming in about a month later, so they are definitely overdramatic in the shops.

Post # 5
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

There’s no point stressing about it. They’ll either get the dress or they won’t. If the salon has a final  date of when they can guarantee it will be in tell them that date. The salon may have a rush fee that they would have to pay if they order outside the normal time line. Maybe that will motivate them. But don’t keep bugging them. Just tell them the last date that they can purchase. And maybe send a message a day or two before that date. And if they don’t get the dress you can deal with that then.

Alternately, you could just go buy them yourself, if you know their size, and ask them to pay you back. You may not get the money back, but then they would all have the dress you like.

Post # 6
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Is everything okay with them financially?

Post # 10
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@whoa_its_ash:  +1

Why bother with girls who give you the shuffle everytime you ask them to do something for your wedding… the one they agreed to be a part of?

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