Sleep Talking: Should It Bother Me?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would just get over it if I were in your shoes.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I completely understand..I am the same way …need attention adn affection and fiance is more so standoffish and says its too hot for me to lay on him and for him to hold me…he can say things that hurt my feelings at times even though he doesnt intend to sometimes…but it makes the times he does hold me and show me love and attention mean so much more…all men arent affectionate and loving so I learned to know that he does love and need and want me, he just doesnt bluntly show it…maybe tell him how it made you feel without arguing and see what it says or if it changes…i had to tell my fiance he was hurting me with the things he said for him to realize it..if he cares he will pay attention more to how he says things..good luck love!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@LittlePumpkin:  I think if it bothers you, you should be able to talk to him about it. Its no big deal, he was proabably just tired and wanted to go to sleep. Ask him about it, tell him it hurt your feelings – that your not trying to make a big deal of anything, but you just want to let him know how you feel. I’m sure he’ll apoligize and you’ll get over it.

Communication is key. If something bothers you enough, say something! =) Talking about things like this doesn’t always = fighting. I know you probably know this, but whats the harm in sharing your feelings? Get it off your chest and move on.

When I have something bothering me about FI or anything really, I CAN’T hold it in, it will just fester until I blurt it out haha.

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think you might be overreacting a bit. I mean he was trying to sleep. I know that feeling of just basically grunting when my DH is trying to ask me questions when I’m trying to sleep. Probably wouldn’t take it to heart.

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