(Closed) Slighted Someone. Argh

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think it would be a good idea to either email or, preferably, call and explain about the limited space and how you’re having the gathering in May and haven’t invited anyone to it yet but would she like to go? I think that should smooth things over decently well.

Good luck!

Post # 4
126 posts
Blushing bee

You cannot think like this otherwise you’ll feel gulity about not inviting every single person you’re ever met in your life. Like you said, you’re just casual friends – J doesn’t need an invite.It sounds like your friend A has caused this problem by asking the question and she certainly has no right to ask you to send an invite!

As you’ve not really said what J has said (apart from just saying she didn’t have an invite) I think it’s difficult to gauge if she’s actually even that insulted? If I was in J’s position I wouldn’t think twice about not being invited to the ceremony. How do you know if she’s that offended?

Please do not stress about this. Invite her to one of the after parties but apart from that I would seriously not worry.

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