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Sneaking peeks at your online registry?

posted 2 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Do you sneak peeks at your registry to see what gifts you are getting?
    No! That's awful! : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Just a few times... : (10 votes)
    32 %
    It's part of my daily ritual : (19 votes)
    61 %
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    Blushing bee
    mrsmike    8/9/09  

    I've got to be honest, and I want to know if other brides to be are doing this too... I LOVE getting gifts, and because of geography I am having 3 different showers (yay awesome mom, fmil, and maids, I am blessed).  I snuck one peek before the first shower, and I felt totally wrong for it, but I was glad I saw in advance that most people did not buy off the registry, so I was prepared.  Well a few weeks later we found the apartment we were moving to as a married couple, and the kitchen colors majorly clashed with everything I had picked, so I redid all the kitchen items... and after that, checking the registry became a bad habit!  I totally know exactly what gifts I am getting at my shower this coming weekend... am I the only gift-obsessed bride to be on here?

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    linzella    June 20, 2009   Austin, Texas

    I kept a close eye on our registry so that I would know whether I should add more items.  We didn't register for nearly enough gifts at first, so midway through our engagement we had to add more choices for our guests!

     
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    monalisa670    August 2009   Boston

    It's way too much fun so I can't help but look- and look often! I do hate that when gifts arrive (as they've started to from people who can't come to our first shower) it's a little disappointing that I can guess what's in the box.. but it's SO exciting when I check the registry and see certain items being bought!! I keep saying I'll try not to look before my first shower but it's a week away now and I don't know if I'll really be able to resist!! It's way too addicting!!! 

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    sassykm    July 18, 2009   La Mirada, CA

    I peek....I admit it.... I am a peeker!!!

     
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    mrsmike    8/9/09  

    update - I recently peeked and saw that someone bought our KitchenAid stand mixer!!!  YYYEESSSSS!!!!  I literally called my fiance at work to tell him, haha.

     
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    Chantellamus    October 15, 2009  

    pfft, I look all the time. I dont see why you wouldn't!

    sure they're 'gifts' but its not like its your birthday...we told the people what WE want and they're picking them off a list. Its not that big of a suprise.

     
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    sminerva21    September 26, 2009   Chicago, IL/wedding in Upstate, NY

    I can't vote because none of the choices apply to me. During the month leading up to my shower, I checked it once a week or so. The month leading up to our wedding, I'll do the same. Reason: I wanted to make sure that it stays balanced, and that the late gift-givers aren't stuck with either only cheaper stuff or expensive stuff. In fact, it's good etiquette to check it regularly for that reason.

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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    My shower isn't until August, but I know I'll be checking!

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    budgetbeautiful    9/26/09   Fredericksburg, VA

    I don't want to ruin the surprise! I know a few people have reserved things off our wishpot registry for my shower, and while I accidentally saw a couple things that I'm getting, I want to be surprised! I understand why brides do it, but it's just not for me.

     
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    pvaulter718    September 5, 2009   Pennsylvania

    I've refrained so far, but I heard that we're running out of things and we're still 2 months out, so I think I might have to break down and check it out so I know what's gone and what I should add.  I'm afraid after I've peaked once it'll be too hard to stop!

     

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