(Closed) Snotty Bee's?!?! ( RANT)

posted 5 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 4
Member
1578 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

I’m sorry you feel that way. Holidays tend to leave people more stressed than normal (weird, right?), so that might be why Bees are “snappy” lately. 

Post # 5
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4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@HisNightOwl2014:  I’m sorry! I think with everything that has been going on lately in the news, and the impending holidays, many people are put on edge. Try to stay happy yourself and concentrate on all the nice sweet, helpful bees 🙂

Post # 6
Member
4327 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I’m snotty because the stinking remnants of sinus infection still lingers. But, I have tissues right next to me! Laughing

Post # 10
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1465 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am sorry you have experienced the pain of others. I know it is cruel and shouldnt be done but the flip side to that is most may be under pressure because they are waiting bees, husband or FI’s arent home, or just wanted to rant because they are so unhappy.

Let me be the first to say “I AM SORRY”….I know I havent done anything but sometime when this word is used it makes the person feel better.

I hope that is what I have done for you.Wink

Post # 11
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966 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

lol. Internets.

Just take a deep breath and think of one of these (we need more of one of them!)

Post # 12
Member
12816 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If people ask for opinions, they have to expect to get answers they don’t want.  But there’s a difference between a different opinion and a snarky one.  Sometimes that line gets blurred…  But it is frustrating when a Bee posts “Do you like _____” and then goes off the handle when someone says no.

Post # 13
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1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@abbie017:  I agree that there’s a difference between providing opinions (particularly when they’ve been asked for) and being snarky. I guess the main thing to remember is that, online, it’s so easy to misinterpret what someone is saying. For the most part, no one wants to offend anyone else (trolls excepted), and I think that’s the main thing we need to keep in mind when we come across a post that hits a nerve with us.

Post # 14
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291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I come on here less frequently because I’m fed up of people getting shirty over the smallest things.

im glad I’m not the only one.

Post # 15
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3226 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m sorry – but I won’t give excuses about why they’re being snotty. Some people are just so because that’s how they are…and they are proud of it. It’s stupid but there’s nothing we can do .

Post # 16
Hostess
23641 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think we can all agree that Weddingbee goes through cycles of happy times, as well as times when we’re stressed out and we tend to take it out on each other. It’s the same way in our day to day lives. However, threads like these never tend to go well, and drawing attention to the drama typically doesn’t help to calm the waters.

If you happen to see drama or violations of the TOS, please flag it for the moderators to review, and click away to another thread rather than getting wrapped up in it yourself. The drama has nowhere to go if you don’t feed it!

Or better yet, start a positive thread to help change the mood on the boards! We all love Weddingbee because of what a supportive and encouraging place this is, so let’s work together to balance out the negative when we see it.

With that being said, I’m going to close this thread so we can focus on the fabulous upcoming weddings and enjoy some awesome recaps. 🙂 Happy Holidays to everyone!

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