(Closed) SO acting strangely… :)

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
34 posts

hi! love when they saynthings like that!! 

seems to me, you need to find out exactly what is going on inside of his head and tell him exactly what your expectations are. it’s not really fair of him to say something like that when all he’s said to you in the past is that he doesn’t want to get married. hmmm…confusing! have a serious conversation with him and tell him how you feel. if he says he still doesn’t want to tie the knot, then let him know not to say little things about “your wedding” if you want to get married, which it sounds like you do, give him reasons not just “because i want too” guys aren’t emotionally driven like we are so most of the time when we need to explain to them why we want something we have to do give specifics and rational ideas. silly boys. good luck!!

Post # 4
2098 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

The quickest way to get a man to marry is to drop it/ignore it. If you don’t believe me read “Why Men Marry B*tches”.



Post # 5
146 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Hmmm seems like some major hints to me! Lol maybe him saying he doesn’t believe in it was just a decoy? 😉 just give it time, and don’t press the issue. he’ll talk when he’s ready

Post # 6
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Coral99:  +1

@michellebow12:  +1


While this is a sweet story and i’m hoping it’s a sign he’s had a change of heart, based on his pretty definitive comments regarding marriage, I’d keep my guard up until you start hearing more on the topic from him. Best wishes!

Post # 7
3733 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@TurquoiseSilver:  Please keep us posted! I had the same SO. He was against marriage and would make jokes about how shitty marriages are. I eventually told him that I didn’t find those jokes funny and that I intended to get married someday soon to a great guy, whether it was him or someone else! It got him thinking. Maybe that’s just what you did too!

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