So…. AM I waiting?

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Am I a waiting bee?
    Yep. You're pretty much waiting. : (17 votes)
    65 %
    Enhh.. maybe? : (3 votes)
    12 %
    Probably not - but hang in there! : (4 votes)
    15 %
    I like polls :) : (2 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    928 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Sounds like you both are on the same page, and are just waiting for the timing to be right to have the wedding you want. So I’d say you’re waiting together : )  Most people can’t get married exactly when they want to for one reason or another (usually $!)

    Post # 5
    Member
    928 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    At 1.5 years I didn’t want to get married, even though I knew my hubby was the one. I didn’t have any desire to get married till about 4 yrs…we got engaged at 5, married at 6. As long as you’re both being honest about how you feel and communicate your expectations, then just enjoy the present. It sounds like she wants to get married, she just wants to wait a little longer, which at 1.5 years I think is totally normal and nothing to worry about : )

    Post # 6
    Member
    1460 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

    I didn’t really consider myself waiting until I finished uni and then the feeling got stronger after our 2nd anniversary and then again after I moved in, and I’m sure it’ll get stronger again after our 2.5 years when I tell him I’m not going to wait around forever and will propose to him if I have to. Lol

     

    Defining “waiting” is kind of a personal thing, another girl might not consider herself waiting if she were in your or my position. I think on some level you are waiting but you’re fortunate enough to still have goals you want to achieve before you really start thinking about it.

    I really like that the two of you are so open with each otherand in places where you’re both satisfied 🙂 all the best! 

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