So angry!! All iv done is cry!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
757 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Mrsdickinson:  your sisters sound exactly like my sister.  It sounds like they tried to take a night that was supposed to be about you, and made it about them.  I’m sorry they did this to you, and you have every right to be angry.  This is exactly why my sister has nothing to do with my wedding.  Have you thought about doing that (excluding them)? I know you’re wedding is right around the corner- but it’s YOUR wedding and you should only have people there who support you 100%.  I’ve caught a lot of shit for it from other people, but my life has been much happier without her involved.  My only advice is to put your foot down, and make sure your side of the story is heard.  Tell them and who ever was involved how you feel as a result of the facts (what exactly happened).  Generally when you focus on the way you feel, and not what others did, people really have no choice but to realize this and think on it.  You’ll also really know how important they are in your life.  I had this conversation with my own sister after a very large argument, and she basically told me to fuck off.  So- now that I got everything off my chest, and she spoke to me like that, she is not part of my life – let alone anything to do with my wedding. Good luck with it all – I hope they realize how obnoxious they were 🙁

Post # 4
805 posts
Busy bee

Sorry you have such crappy sisters. I would just have another hen night out, arrange it how you want and leave out the nasty sisters.

Post # 6
1044 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Your story was a bit hard to follow, so I could be wrong. Honestly, it sounds like the whole thing was one big drunk misunderstanding. I’m of the opinion that when people go out drinking together, they should try to stay together. Things get too confusing when different groups are leaving at varying times. It sounds like no one knew what was going on, when you all were leaving, and where anyone was. It was the perfect formula for arguments.

Do your sisters normally treat you poorly? Have you spoken to them since last night?

Post # 8
9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

That was really hard to read.  Where were your friends through this?  Why were you sitting outside of a pub instead of going in and having a good time?

Post # 9
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Ugh, what a nightmare! I’m sorry your hen wasn’t everything you imagined!

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