Post # 1
so i posted last night/this morning about the guy that tried to break in last night. my fiance said he will be home this afternoon but now he said he wont be home till after 4 because hes going to watch his brother play football…hello…what about your pregnant fiance who had the fright of her life last night and the police out at 4am. so not happy. he could have come home to make sure im ok.
Post # 3
@ChocolateLime: yeah….he’s being a bit selfish, I’d say. Maybe he didn’t realize how much you wanted him home and how shooken up you Are.
Post # 5
ummm…Yes. I would be pissed off too. That being said, maybe your FI doesn’t know how much he being there will comfort you? I kind of think my FI might think “what can I do now, that it’s over?”
*Sigh* a man’s brain is so disappointing sometimes huh?
Post # 7
I would discuss with him that if he’s going to be away at night, you will NEED to be able to get ahold of him. Especially with a baby on the way.
Post # 8
Why don’t you go watch football with him?
Post # 9
Did you make it clear you prefered he came home? You’ve talked to him already, so I assume he knows you’re okay. If you’re feeling uneasy about being home alone atm, I would go with him to the game.
ETA: I didn’t mean to come off cold, I understand you’ve had a scare. I’m just trying to show how he may be looking at it. My FI would say that there’s little difference in coming home at 4pm and coming home and 1pm and that he’s going to be home with you during the evening, so he’s probably not considering that you may still be shaken up.
Post # 10
Aw, I’m sorry. I would be really upset too after that scare. 🙁
Post # 11
What kind of dick does that????