- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
Any bees with an unorganised man? I need advice!
So I hosted a BBQ over the weekend and it was suppposed to be a jointly hosted event with my fiance. Long story short, fiance didn’t do half of it.
My mom and I ran around preparing everything from the day before and in the early morning on the day. Fiance arrived one and half hours later of when he was supposed show up to help. He had come to the place several times but got lost on the way. I don’t understand this as there’s things like iPhones and internet available and nothing is too difficult nowadays!!!
Imagine when you are so busy you have a lot on your plate and someone who’s supposed to be a help needs help. I was so pissed that I snapped over the phone in front of friends. Even my friends and mom tried to calm me down saying it’s not a big deal.
It should not be that big of a deal but I really made efforts and wanted everyone to have a good time, so I felt like he was ruining things for me.
I felt like he doesn’t give a @@@.
This makes me very nervous…with our wedding coming up in 6-7 months and also there will be a lot of things I will need help with or whatever in the future, you know.
I am so nervous that I am already making everything easy for him regarding the wedding planning yet he will manage to make mistakes and things go wrong, and I will be an angry bride. I am also doubting his sense of responsibility.
He DID plan, arrange and execute the proposal amazingly and he is very responsible and never sloppy professionally.
I know I am overreacting and stressed out too much.
Can anyone relate?