Weddingbee boards

To start this rant my FMIL told me that since she planned mt FSIL wedding that I am going to have to plan this my wedding myself because she is not doing any off it.

I went to my wedding invite appointment yesterday and brought my FMIL and my mom.  My FMIL starts suggesting things like why don't you get shamrocks on the invites because her family is Irish after I said I already wanted flowers and this wedding is in august.  The invite girl asks about favors and I say no thanks because I don't want labels made up and fmil goes on about how we have to have fruit cake favors...I want a candy bar.  

later she goes on to tell me what kind of BM dresses I should order what card box what garter.

She tells me I am on my own and then starts trying to take over and I really don't want other peoples opinions.  My mother doesn't push her opinion if I tell her I don't like it she drops it.

I am just annoyed