(Closed) so anxious and impatient…I need to do something to just get my mind off it!

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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6598 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ahhh so exciting!

I am with you – after I found out it wasn’t happening this weekend it is all I talked about! I hope you are able to play it cool this week as I am trying to do the same thing!

Good luck and I can’t wait to see your beautiful ring!

Post # 4
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495 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Super exciting, and sounds like it’s really going to happen.  Maybe he’s waiting so that it will truly be a surprise, when you’re truly not expecting it!

Post # 5
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815 posts
Busy bee

Sounds like he is gonna wait to make it a surprise!  Good luck!

Post # 6
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1266 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Its gonna happen! and as much as you want to distract yourself its going to be hard. my advice take up knitting…lol no no no really it’s going to be tough because its such a big thing but try not to look too much into it perhaps because you know its coming so just kind of brush it off and it will be even  more exciting the day of!

Post # 8
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967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I SO know how you feel. In fact, I’m embarrassed to say I had a ton of anxiety waiting for my ring. (We’ve been together 7 years, was waiting after picking it out for 5 months). My only advice to you is this: You have ONE time to be proposed to (hopefully). Freaking out about will make it less special, so be patient. Your man is going to do something amazing that rocks your socks. Mine did ๐Ÿ™‚ I had plenty of little breakdowns and disappointments so I know how it feels. I wish you the best and use wedding bee to get out some of the angst, it’s a great community! It will happen before you know it. GOOD LUCK! 

Post # 9
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1392 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery

Hang in there…I know from experience that the wait can be tough,  but stressing about it is only going to make the two of you feel worse. I know this from my own experience I know getting engaged is a very exciting time.  I am happy to finally have my wait over, but this means the new wait of wating to get married.  I never thought to save money while I was waiting for the ring and now we need to think about planning a wedding without a lot saved.  I am happily engaged and will be so for 2 years until we can afford the wedding we want.  I have no worries though I love calling him my fiance for now ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

It’ll happen, and you can do it! Just try and stay busy! congrats in advance! = D

Post # 12
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10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

precongrats!! i think M feels it strange that i pretty much have our wedding planned in advance too. but my excuse is i do this for a living not that i am pretty much obssessed.  at least that’s my story and i’m sticking too it!!! LMAO

 

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