(Closed) So awkward it hurts…

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 4
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2006 posts
Buzzing bee

Conveniently “remove” her post off your wall. What post? Wink

Post # 5
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5904 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

eek…um….creeper alert.  i’d just say that you guys are planning a smaller wedding and are keeping it to just close family and friends, but you’d love to meet up with her some time.

Post # 6
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177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

dont meet up with her it will lead to more awkwardness… i would block her who cares

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Eww I’m having this problem too! Although not to the extreme of posting on my wall!

I would set your privacy settings to block her from being able to see and write on your wall and if she asks, just say you blocked it bc of work or something.

Another way facebook causes drama lol

Post # 8
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179 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I wouldn’t dignify that wall post with a response. Honestly, she’s the one embarrasing herself. How blatant was her post?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Remove the wall post, and send her a private message thanking her for her excitement and congratulations, and expressing regret that your small, intimate guest list won’t have room for her and her boyfriend.

Post # 11
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1391 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Seriously, just block her! That’s annoying. I hate when people try and be buddy buddy to get to your wedding

Post # 12
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711 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Haven’t spoken in 6 years??? I would let her know it’s a smal wedding, just family and very close friends….I’d send it via fb message. And you could add “but I’d love to catch up soon, let me know when you are free!” Chances are, a meet up will not ever happen.

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

It seems easy enough to block her, but I think that you can be a bigger person. I second what @littlestbirds said. Just send her a message and explain that you are only having intimate company. She should understand and even if not, you handled it properly.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I agree – if you don’t really care to stay in touch with her at all (ever again…) then block and ignore her.  Otherwise, you use the intimate, only family and close friends line and state that your guest list simply will not be able to accommodate her and her bf, but you are so happy that she wanted to share your day with you.

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