- 3 years ago
My boyfriend and I have been together for going on 9 years (since we were 16, now 25 going on 26). I know it is deffinately in the works, I just have a serious problem with needing to know when it’s going to happen, even though I know I’m not suppost to and it SHOULD be a suprise.
For Christmas my boyfriend got him and I a mini vacation to Montreal for the weekend of my birthday, it will be at the end of feb into March, a 4 day trip. I have picked out the ring I want off of an etsy shop, so he knows which one to get me and knows my ring size.
He won’t let me see his bank account and he won’t let me on his computer Nor his texts with his mother ( who I know is playing a huge role in this!). So I checked the etsy site and that exact (its a very specific ring- and doesn’t seem to be a big seller, maybe 2 or 3 in the past, most people get the style but opt for a different metal/ stone that happens to be more cost effective ) ring was purchased about 4 wks ago now, according to seller it takes about 4-6 wks for jewlery to be created. I know, I know I’m snooping like crazy, but I then also checked to see if he had an etsy account, which he did, which was created on the same day that ring was purchased, my only doubtful ness is that we litterally just got my ring sized last Sunday, and his mom sent me a text asking if we have our passports and if we are still going to montreal. So he’s really throwing me for a loop, could she be in on it or could this just not be the trip…(I know nobody can really answer this but him). I mean I know all signs point to yes, but I still have a lot of doubt. (The cost of the ring being a big thing, he’s already paying for this trip on top of a 3k ring!!!) I really don’t want to go into this vacation thinking it’s going to happen, then be disappointed/frustrated at him for it not happening yet. Ugh halp!!