(Closed) So disappointed about my wedding…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m so sorry that there were so many miscommunications! What a heartbreak. I think you should absolutely do something on an anniversary — small but beautiful, to celebrate your marriage in the way you would like.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m so sorry to hear this.  =(  Sorry your day wasn’t what you had envisioned it to be.  I like your hubby’s idea — do something special.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

I am so sorry how dissapointing!! There is nothing you can do to change the day but I would recommend taking some pics over. Maybe a trash the dress or I’ve seen some cool elopement photoshoots where a photographer follows them around a city or whatever. Then you can have your hair and make-up how you like it. Id def write a bad review for that hair and makeup guy. How rediculous! Just try and remember the whole point of a wedding is to become husband and wife and you are so try and enjoy this time. Maybe you’ll look back and laugh when you tell the grandkids someday!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Oh my gosh, that is truly sad and my heart breaks for you.  I hope in time youc an forget (or laugh) about all that went wrong.  I know this is just a saying, but the worst a wedding day is, the better the marriage?  I hope so.  Good luck.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Aw, I’ m so sorry! That is awful!

My wedding was sort of messed up as well and a TON of things went wrong but the most important part is that you married the love of your life!

I totally agree to do something for your one year. Maybe you 2 can have another wedding, but just sort of elope? Get your hair and makeup EXACTLY how you want it, wear tyhe same dress or a different one. Go to the JOP and say your vows again because you mentioned he messed his up. Go out to a nice dinner and have a photographer capture it all if you want, or if not, enjoy it just you 2!

I hope your pictures turned out okay and I wish you the best!!!

Post # 8
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524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Wow so sorry to hear about the problems at your wedding.. But one good thing is you got your hubby who from what you say is standing by you and want to make you happy so yes do something big/grand for your ammiversay and smile you have the man of your dreams

I wish I could give you a big hug

Post # 9
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862 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow, this truly sucks but I agree with the others who are saying to have another picture session (with your hair and make-up the way you actually want them) and do something special, maybe a vow renewal, for your anniversary.  I’m really sorry that all of these mishaps happened to you on your wedding day, though.  No bride deserves to have her day ruined like this. πŸ™  *hugs*

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

Boy, that sucks…but you had to plow on because it’s only that one day right?

I keep hoping not to hear about these kinds of things because it really is disappointing and we do remember the “bad” and the good because they are like a slap in our faces and an insult to our hard work in planning a perfect wedding!

I hope you have good pictures! And I hope to see the recaps of your wedding soon!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

so sorry for you πŸ™  Maybe what pp said is true about the marriage being better because of all that went wrong.  My make up person screwed my make up too for my reception.   I would definitely do some sort of redo like PPs have said.  Even a one year vow renewal. I would have done it but there is no money right now. 

 

Focus on your positives and look at your hubby and just love him up!

 

I feel for ya honey! 

Post # 13
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567 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

im sorry to hear this date twin. mine didnt go as expected but i married my best friend and thats all that matters check out my post the lowdown of our wedding it will make you laugh. my brothers or sisters didnt come all that does not matter anymore and should not your union is blessed. Big huggggs to you.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee

Big hugs to you, OP!  I know how you feel. 

Post # 15
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1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it’s a great idea for you to contact your photographer and ask if he could take some additional pics with your hair and makeup done the way you wanted. He prob wouldn’t charge to much and it may make you feel a little better.

Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m so sorry. I agree with everyone – try to do a redo photo session and then go out to a totally awesome, normally out of budget restaurant for your one year aniversay (I suggest that so there is no elaborate plans or worry THAT will go wrong). To a lifetime of happiness πŸ™‚

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