Post # 1
October is all but over. I was so sure it was happening. What if he just “forgets” our timeline? He made a comment about me leaving if we didn’t get engaged, I said I’ve slowed my roll on that. Maybe he thinks that means I can wait longer. He isn’t acting differently, or saying money is tight. We’re not going on any trips. There’s no ring in sight, it seems. And the onslaught of holiday engagements has started. I’m going to crawl into a hole the rest of the year 🙁
Post # 3
Aww! Are you sure he isn’t secretly planning something? I know a lot of girls on here were completely surprised and had no idea their SO was going to propose when they did.
Regardless ..hang in there. What sort of timeline have you discussed, if I may ask?
Post # 4
first it was October of this year, then after taxes next year, now it’s the end of this year (it was moved for financial reasons). If he’s secretly planning, he’s doing a heck of a job..
Post # 5
@newcitylights: What exactly was the comment he made about your leaving if you didn’t get engaged?
Post # 6
- Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World
@newcitylights: You still have two full months to go! Just enjoy yourself with him. 🙂
Post # 7
we were at celebrating our anniversary and he said “here’s to many more years…hopefully” and I asked why he said “hopefully” and he said “well if you don’t get your ring soon…” as if to say I would leave. It broke my heart that he thinks that which is why I said I’ve chilled out.