(Closed) so dissapointed by BM attitude

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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853 posts
Busy bee

Yes, that is frustrating. I can understand if she were to back out because of the difficulties associated with helping and planning from abroad, but not letting you know what’s going on is rude. I might address this issue with her directly. Rather than just leaving messages to call you back, or specific messgaes about her dress, or some other detail, I would write her an email and ask what is going on. Tell her that you understand if she doesn’t have the time to be a BM anymore, but that you really need to know soon. I would let her know that you had heard she might not make the wedding, and that you need to know these things.  She should at least have the decency to let you know what she’s doing.

Post # 5
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416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Have you talked to her about your friendship? She may be having a hard time with you getting married.

Post # 6
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569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Have you asked her how her move has gone, about work, etc, or just talked about your wedding to her?

Sorry, just seemed worth asking!

Post # 8
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1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

keep in mind that you haven’t heard this from the bridesmaid in question, just from a third party.  I know you might be feeling sad right now, but until she tells you herself, I would shrug it off.  Maybe whoever told you misunderstood.

Post # 9
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416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Agreed with pp for sure.

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