so frustrated!! can i just have a baby please! ugh

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im feeling optimistic.... saw my new OB today...

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how early did you feel the symptoms of pregnancy??

so frustrated!! can i just have a baby please! ugh

posted 5 months ago in TTC

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stephanie63087 May 14, 2011 Fort Wayne, Indiana

so today is 16 dpo for me and i got a bfn and no sign of af which is three days late! i hate my body and i give up! ugh!

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Moja Milosc September 24, 2011

:( I'm sorry you're feeling this way, but please don't hate yourself for it! You're not doing anything wrong. Have you considered just not trying not to conceive? Maybe doing that for a little while will help you to not be so hard on yourself... Good luck with whatever you choose!

Do something nice for yourself today :)

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mwitter80 December 11, 2010 Connecticut

It ain't over until AF shows up remember. Don't hate yourself yet. Ya never know.

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Tatum October 2, 2010 Minneapolis

Do you have a pretty regular schedule? I mean, do you know for sure you ovulated 16 days ago, and that you're 3 days late, or are you just going by a 28 day cycle? Is it possible ovulation was delayed a few days and you're not technically late yet? If so, I'd give it a few more days before you give up. And, not to get your hopes up, but I took a pregnancy test that was negative, and I was 4 WEEKS pregnant at the time (I mean, 4 weeks past conception, not 4 weeks past my lst period).

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stephanie63087 May 14, 2011 Fort Wayne, Indiana

@Moja Milosc: yea i know.... its just frustrating!!! and i cant not try.... lol... it hard...

@mwitter80: i dont think af is ever coming.... shes on vacation. or something. im so out of whack :(

@Tatum: im almost positive. up until this month i have had pretty regular periods and i use an app to keep track. my normal cycle is 27 days. ive never had a 30 day cycle till this month. :(

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Miss Root 07/04/10 Seattle

I'm sorry, I know exactly how you feel. Have you tried charting yet? I was using an app too, but after having a random 40 day cycle after months of 28 day cycles, I got sick of the guess-work and I felt a lot more in control of things.

Good luck! Keeping my fingers crossed for you that this is your month!

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