SO hates new job..what to do?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
15014 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

If it were me, I would move back to the hometown. Having a miserable work life makes the rest of life miserable.  Moving is tough, but at the end of the day its better to be happy about your job, knowing your supporting your family, and being able financially to have a life outside of work. You have to do what is best for the two of you even if you have to leave his brother behind, its rough, but your not responsible for them, just yourselves as a unit.

Post # 5
1343 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would move back to the hometown. Being miserable at your job is something that I know personally…it effects every aspect of your life. Your relationship could even suffer from it. 


Post # 6
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@mackenzie810:  I agree with tksjewelry. The most important thing is that you’re both comfortable where you’re living. If someone is so unhappy in their worklife, then that unhappiness has a tendancy to trickle down into other aspects of their life.

Moving is really tough and stressful but so being miserable everyday at work. I’m sure if you explain to his sister and brother and law that things are just not working out and you have to do what’s in the best interest of you and him then they should understand! They might be a little dissapointed but if they care about you two then I’m sure they just want the best for you as well.

Good luck!

Post # 7
12873 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you’re not really tied to where you are and he can easily get a job in your actual hometown, what’s there to stay for?  I’d pick up and move again.

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