(Closed) So hurt by my family

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Happy7:  Is there a way you can get your $10,000 back? Because I would elope. I’m sorry your family is this way. Just surround yourself with those who love you and think of those things. People are funny sometimes. *Hugs*

Post # 4
901 posts
Busy bee

Agreed, see about getting back the 10k. Perhaps call around and get an actual count of who is coming and make some changes.

It sucks, but you can’t change people. They’re going to do what they want to do.

Post # 5
310 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Girl…here’s a big hug.  I completely understand.  My fam kind of did the same thing.  It hurt.  However, the people who love and care about you will be there and in the end, it’s about you and your hubby.  Question? Would it make you feel better eloping if you know this and that this is the reason you elope?  If you think you’ll feel better, then check into getting money back.  If not, then see if you can scale other things down.  Caterer…can you decrease number?  Cake?  Can you decrease the size?  This is what I’m trying to do.  Instead of dwelling on the people who didn’t come, I’m trying to think on those who did.  Those are the relationships I want to maintain.  Don’t let these people bring you down.  Your wedding will be beautiful 🙂

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