Post # 1
I just need to gush a bit. Sorry if this is long but please comment if you like:)
My BF and I had a fabulous weekend together. It was like when we first started dating. Just relaxing and fun and perfect. I think I am actually starting to just relax and realize that he will do it in his own time and I don’t think I will have to wait very long for it We were standing in the bedroom last night putting some clothes away and I had taken off my first ring he ever gave me and set it on the dresser on his side of the bed. I told him that I needed to get it resized because it was a little big on my finger and I didn’t like that it slid around and I was afraid I would hit it on something and lose a stone. He said that there is no point in resizing if he is going to be buying me a different one and we are trading that one in. I didn’t say anything to that. I don’t want him to think I am pressuring him. I did notice that the ring has been moved from where I set it. It’s now next to another ring we are trading in for my e-ring. The other ring is kind of hideous and we are glad to be trading it. I just smiled when I saw the two rings together. The other one had been in a little change basket and he had taken it out of there put it with mine. I am thinking that he wants them in sight so he doesn’t forget them.
I don’t know, maybe I am still just a wee bit super excited. HAHA!
Post # 3
Aw, that’s great!! I’m sure it will come soon 🙂
Post # 4
Enjoy this time!
It is frustrating but it is also super fun and exciting!
Post # 5
It’ll come soon! Of course when you least expect it, just be patient!
Post # 6
I am hoping soon. I am just so excited to start planning. I feel like this time is completely different than my first marriage. Maybe it’s because I was only 19 and our moms pretty much planned everything and I had no say in it. I didn’t even really get to find the perfect dress. I had to go with what my mother was willing to pay for. This time around things are going to be different. I want the perfect dress, and I want to do all of the planning. I am grateful that my parents are willing to help with the costs, but I told my mom that she can not make any negative comments about what I choose. She is fine with just handing over a check anyway:) They are more then likely going to make all the food and pay the bar bill. Which is completely fine with me and I am more then grateful for that. I didn’t expect them to help at all since they have already paid for one wedding.
I don’t talk about planning stuff with my BF unless he brings up the topic, which by the way he has lately. All weekend he commented on different things that he wants. And it’s no longer him saying if he ever gets married it’s now when and our wedding and the wedding.
I have to admit that he has come a very very long way from where he and I were 6 months ago. Then it was I am never getting married and blah blah blah. Now it comes up on an almost daily basis on what he wants at our wedding.
I am not letting myself get carried away though. I bought a planner but I have yet to take it out of the bag or even write in it. I still have it in my car with the reciept. I have contemplated taking it back and waiting till we are officially engaged to purchase one. He knows I bought it and didn’t say anything about it. I told him I wanted one so I could put numbers of vendors and things in there and he was fine with it.
He did text me this morning and asked if I was feeling better because I was just exhausted last night. He has changed. He is my olf BF again. He is so sweet and considerate and I am falling in love with him all over again. I sound so stupid but oh well. We were talking about his upcoming surgery in December and that he is going to be off work for an extended period of time and that he is trying to work all the overtime he can right now because he needs to buy my ring. He joked and called it the “stupid ring” but I know he was joking. He is very very tight with his money.
I am hopeful that these things I am seeing in him and from the comments he’s been making are all signs of something good coming soon.
Post # 7
What an exciting time! I bet it is coming soon!
Post # 8
Aww I’m so glad things are getting better! enjoy yourselves and I bet time will fly by!