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and found my username and the other username i created cause i figured she was stalking me...then she claims that she only does it find "slanderous" comments...
EEK! That's freaky! Is she a head case or what?
(she's gonna love this comment ;)
what? how did she find your username? That's crazy! "slanderous comments" geez
That is REALLY scary!
Im guessing that might be one of the reasons why she is estranged?
Yikes. Sounds like she needs to make some friends or develop a hobby... find some constructive way to spend her time.
wow, good luck with that one. If this is how the relationship starts, it's not going to be pretty...
Is she estranged to you only or both of you (you and FH)? Regardless of that though, very weird.
wow not ony is she stalking me, but she made up a name bridein2010 and responded only to give herself up...
Goodness...that is ridiculous! How did she know you were on here or find your screename? I would consider creating a new one if I were you. Sorry lady. :(
holy crap
*edit: yeah i just happened to finish reading that last post about family, then saw your comment on the bottom! wow.
all we can do is laugh at this point...FI just brought over a huge glass of wine and said i have to drink all of it!
Wow, sounds like your FMIL is a wee bit nuts, I see why she's "estranged". I've dated guys with crazy mothers so I can imagine what you're going through, only a million times worse because you're marrying him! Family or not, it's best to cut people like that out of your life as much as possible. It seems like you guys have made the right decision by distancing yourself from her. I'm so sorry you're going through this, she definitely needs to find something else to do with her time.
Woah!
I just read your other thread legalbee and that is REALLY MESSED UP!
I enjoy that her insistence of doing nothing wrong is undermined by the fact that she is posting on Weddingbee, using a pseudonym, and generally just being a bit creepy.
I echo northernazbride: how did she find out your user name?
I don't have much experience with FMIL's, but I have a lot of experience dealing with internet stalkers.
I strongly recommend against posting about someone who is tracking you online! It almost always increases the amount of stalking and tracking that they do... I'm not sure why, but stalkers tend to feed off of attention and energy.
The best way to have a stalker lose interest is to ignore them. That said, it may be a different story with in-laws... it's hard to say for sure.
GOOD LUCK!!
Good to know, Mr. Bee. Well, anyone who reads this thread at least should help out and discourage interaction with the stalker. I find that if someone is unknowingly engaging a truly disruptive presence, a gentle PM does the trick.
I have to point out that she actually made TWO psuedonyms, and she's an idiot. Really, we can't tell that bridein2010 and bridein2011 are the same person? Come on lady, quit your stalking and focus your energy on not creeping out your family!
I love how your FMI-Looney was all "FLABRIDE sounds controlling!"
And yet... she's stalking you online in order to know what's going on.
Pot. Kettle.
CUT THE UMBILLICAL CORD, FMIL. You're clearly demonstrating how controlling and neurotic you are.
wow freakin nuts! Your FMIL needs to get her OWN LIFE and stay the heck out of yours. What a crazy stalker (you hear me bridein2010 or bridein2011 or whatever you are now...YOU NEED YOUR OWN LIFE YOU CRAZY A$$ STALKER)
I hope you come back legalbee and she doesn't find you so you can continue your wedding planning extravaganza! Maybe get a new email address, obviously a new username and don't post your location so she can't pick you out from the newbies posting in your area! Also lock your doors and look into a restraining order lol, she sounds like a nut job. Maybe if she respected her sons choice to grow and up get married you both wouldn't be estranged from his parents! They should point the finger at themselves not you!
Also, don't put your name or day of your wedding. You could put the month and year because there are a lot of others' with your same month and year. Just be careful not to reference specific things that are going on in your life, so she won't find you.
@Noritake22-good idea on no specific dates, darn it I left that out! 
Also @Legalbee enjoy your wine, I think I'll have a glass right now too!
legalbee - I think our FMIL's might be related! Mine is just as psycho (see most of my previous posts) and if she was more computer savvy she'd be on here I'm SURE. We need a support group for CFMIL's (CRAZY FMIL'S!)
I'm sorry, legalbee, but I'm just ROFL here. I can't believe she would do that!! You would think an OLDER woman would have MORE OF A LIFE than to stalk her son's wife-to-be on WB and pretend to post objective comments.
Your FMIL sounds really creepy and I love how she said that YOU were controlling. I bet she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong/weird, though. They never do.
I feel for you. She scares the bejesus outta me.
Also, does she really not care that she's losing the love and respect of her son, if not you?
This thread along with the one containing your crazy a$$ FMIL have been so thoroughly enjoyable today. I am SSSOOOOO sorry – for the position you are in. I am SSSOOO happy that your FI does not display any of the same characteristics as his mother – thank the man above for that, lol Good Luck and we will remain to have your back 
Yikes. I second other suggestions. Go away, make a new SN and don't give any id'ing information that she could tell you from any other newbee. if there is anyone on WB you want to know you as legalbee then go ahead and pm them. So sorry she's nutso :( At least it sounds like your FI stands up for you!
oh wow. i have a fear of this. i didn't answer a recent fsil question for fear of it being MY fsil signing onto weddingbee and trying to get me to respond, even though she has no idea i'm on here. i told my fi about it, and we both agreed i'm paranoid.... but this makes me feel better.
I'm sorry. I feel so bad for your fiance, and also yourself! thankfully he is sticking up for you! that's really great! I hope you guys can all settle this offline :)
But yeah.... she tried to insinuate that she was "older" and it was "age" but although I can see what her frustration is (letting go, and worrying and therefore micromanaging) and understand that all mothers want whats best for their kids... she's definitely crossed some boundaries... Hopefully she comes around... Good luck!!!
thanks so much for the support! FI and I are really enjoying these comments!
OH.MY.GOD!!! Drink up girl! We got your back and can electronic kick her a$$ if need be! haha You're lucky to have such a great FI who defends you no matter what... if he's reading too-- YOU'RE THE BOMB FI! haha
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