(Closed) So I gave him a note… am I crazy to get my hopes up?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Am I crazy to think a proposal may be coming very soon?
    You're a little crazy: You're giving him too many hints/it's pushing the proposal further away. : (13 votes)
    34 %
    You're just barely crazy: You're overthinking this, but YES, I think a proposal is a little sooner : (9 votes)
    24 %
    You're not really crazy: The proposal is probably coming very soon now that the ring is much less $. : (5 votes)
    13 %
    You're very sane: He didn't react to the note coz now, the proposal is coming sooner than you think! : (2 votes)
    5 %
    Nothing's changed, the ring is just less money, he'll still do it when he originally intended. : (9 votes)
    24 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    883 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    if it’s going to happen, it will happen, if it’s not, it won’t….pushing may push it further away than you would want.

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    2457 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    You’re making yourself crazy, girl. What is he supposed to say to you about a note that has jewelry specifics? Especially when it’s confusing to him? 😛 

    Give it time. He’s gotta go out and try to pick/plan the the whole shebang. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    2457 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @ultimatebirds:  Yeah! But – at least you know he wants to, and that he plans to propose, and that’s something 🙂

    Post # 9
    Member
    122 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    @ultimatebirds:  

     

         i know how you feel. i have been w/ my now fiance for about 8 yrs. now. and i just got my e-ring on dec. 2012.he gave me a promise ring i think 6 yrs. ago.

        at first he said he was not ready this was after the promise ring. and then i keep talking about it. i felt i was getting older and if he doesn’t want to marry me then why i’m i waiting for nothing. so, everytime i think i can pack up and leave. i always remember all the good things we have been through and that he is a really good guy. i also ask my self if i leave will i be happier w/out him. and the answer was always NO! anyway, when i was finally okay i don’t care if we get married as long as we are happy and love each other. he started to ask me about wedding stuff. so, last yr. on my b-day he ask what i wanted for my b-day i said i wanted a bigger ring. it was kinda of a joke but not really. so, i just sent him pics. of rings i wanted. i waited for 6 more months and got it on dec. 

       so, my point is if you really love him and he loves you it will happen. trust me all the wait will be worth it. 🙂

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