So, I had a bridezilla moment yesterday….

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@dreamer1288:  You pretty much summed up my side of the discussion I had with my FI this morning before work.  Except I was crying and apologizing for crying the entire time.  I am sooooooooo ready for this damn wedding to be over with.  I just want to be married and I am pissed he wanted a wedding when it would have been way easier, cheaper, and less stressful for us to elope.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@dreamer1288:  Deeeep breaths!  I’m sorry you’ve been so stressed out.  Keep in mind people are procrastinators.  We received almost all of our RSVPS in the last couple of days before the deadline.  You’re bound to have some follow up calls to make. I would start making them the day after the deadline and be firm. No final answer=No seat at the wedding!

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@dreamer1288:  I don’t even get the comfort of a honeymoon because we are hosting guests from the UK for the week of and the week following our wedding.  Plus, we can’t really afford to take a real honeymoon right now so we’re looking at a one year anniversary trip at the earliest.  I tried to convince him to take a two week honeymoon to Europe and get hitched over there (or at the courthouse before leaving) but he wanted the big event with family and friends.  Poo.

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@beachbride1216  Ha ha I hear you. We went to Fiji with the kids last year and I kept saying ‘let’s do it! NOW!’ but FI refused. He wants family/friends there.  So here we are a year down the track and I am the one organizing it all. 

I had a meltdown about 3 weeks ago and threw the invites across the living room – since then I have had a bit of ‘help’ to get stuff done! 

Roll on the big day. Just trying to focus on completing 1-2 tasks a week at this stage. 

Lists are my friend…

 

 

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

You’re SO close! Keep trekking through!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Lol that’s what I feel like today! It’s amazing how the stress/pressure affects you as the day gets closer. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Don’t let it get to you too much!!! We all have our moments. Make your apologies and then move on. And ask for help! I couldn’t have made it through the last week without a lot of help from friends and family. And it really made the weddign feel like a community effort. It was totally worth it. Something will not get done. And that is okay. Prioritize and if it doesn’t happen, just don’t worry about it.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@dreamer1288:  We’re hopefully going to be able to do a mini-moon to New Orleans in February during Mardi Gras season.

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