- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
His sister to be a BM the night we got engaged. We were in the kitchen and I was making phone calls (he proposed during his family’s 4th of July party). She kept going on and on about how exciting it was and was I excited and stuff. And I was beaming and giddy and stuff. And at one point I said, “Are you ready to be a bridesmaid?” And she gave me a strange look and said “Always a bridesmaid never a bride.” And then she kind of walked away.
I didn’t really give much thought to it until the discussion came up with FI of who we wanted to have. He has three guys in mind. I know who my MOH would be and for the other two, I just don’t know. The wedding is in his hometown, 14 hours from where my friends are from. I know one friend, my best friend since age 7, will come. My other two closest friends have kids and wouldn’t be able to just jet off to New York to be in a wedding.
So what do I do? Do I include his sister I sort of asked? Do I include his other two sisters? Do we increase the size of our bridal party?