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So I'm at a wedding reception with fish in the centerpiece...

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    sparkle    November 2009  

    And the fish has died...

    So we're sitting here, at the table, with a dead fish floating around in the centerpiece and it's a little awkward.

     
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    blu77    October 2011  

    oh, blech!!!!

     

     
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    oooooooooo! Every bride's worst nightmare re centerpieces. Unfortunately this couple didn't feel the same way.

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    Oh man...poor fish. I hope you guys at least have eaten already b/c I don't know if I could with a fish belly up right in front of me.

     
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    PurpleUnicorn    April 19, 2011  

    thats gross. didn't anyone tell anyone to get rid of it?  or u just ate your whole meal like that?

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    Exibit A of why people shouldn't use live centerpieces! My aunt and uncle used godsfish in their centerpieces years ago. Some fish died but one ended up having babies during the reception. That was pretty cool but the belly-up floaters... not so much. 

     
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    blu77    October 2011  

    I vote for flushing the poor bugger!

     

     
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    FutureMrsMoore    May 6, 2012  

    Oh dear... but still... LOL

     
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    brenna1035    August 7, 2011   Loveland, Co

    Ewww. My cake baker convinced me to do cake stands with betas in them. Only 3. And she says she'll be on dead fish watch. She better be!

     
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    firsttimemom    December 18, 2010  

    LOL! This made me laugh :) I'd be so embarassed though!

     
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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    My aunt and uncle used godsfish in their centerpieces years ago. Some fish died but one ended up having babies during the reception.

    Goldfish are egg-layers. Were they mollies perhaps? Mollies (and guppies, swordtails, and platys) are live-bearers.

     

    Either way, I think living centerpeices are a no-go.

     
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    NDBee    March 10, 2012  

    It's a wedding and a funeral. Flush the little buddy :-(

     
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    Lindsay05    August 21, 2010   Canada

    That's usually what happens. The only other outcome are drunken dares to eat the fish. I have seen both. :(

     
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    thewheelsonthebus    June 25, 2011  

    @Lindsay05: Exactly. 

    Fish in centerpieces and butterflies at ceremonies almost never work out well.  :(

     
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    PinkPinstripes    November 2011   Boston, MA

    I saw a drunk guest eat a fish centerpiece once....it was so disgusting.

     
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    I hate the fact that people use fish as decoration, especially if it's a beta in a flower vase. It's not recommended that they be in a bowl with plants (how people usually display them). Betas need to get to the surface to breathe or they will literally suffocate! Sad.

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    D'aw.  That's so sad.  Poor fishies.

     
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    jo.lee    September 10, 2011   Indianapolis

    Eww, that's so gross! Kudos to you for staying, I definitely would have left as soon as I saw fish in the centerpieces (I do have a fish phobia, though!). 

     
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    tiny tuna    November 18, 2011   Toronto, Canada

    That's so inhumane, people should not use fishes as decor!! 

     
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    kperry3    January 1, 1991  

    What do you do with the fish after the reception? Were the "rented" or bought and then just forgotten? Wow...

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    @abbyful: I have no idea. I was 8 and they looked like goldfish. 

     
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    DeathByDesign    February 18, 2012   Lives in Ontario, married in Quebec

    lmao, this made my night. Thank you.

     
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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    That's terrible.  Poor fish.

     
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    Scottielass    July 3, 2011   Westerville, OH

    Wow, I must be out of some wedding loop.  I have never in my life heard of using live fish in a centerpiece.  Do people give them out as door prizes at the end of the night?

     
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    ktk    April 6, 1999  

    @abbyful:That's exactly what I was going to say!

    Are you a fish keeper as well?

     
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    Potatoes    May 5, 2012   Ohio

    That's what happens when you don't put the proper chemicals in the water with them. I know my sister was thinking about using goldfish centerpieces, but we are all very experienced with fish and have the proper accomodations for them when the wedding is over.

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    I hate when people use animals as decoration. 

     
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    KiwiBee    October 8, 2011  

    Haha omg this is awful but making me laugh.  My mother used to tell me stories of this happening at weddings she worked and people freaking out.  How awkward!  Hopefully anyone thinking about this will read it and re-evaluate, lol.  Hope you got through the night!

     
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    Mrs. Meowerson    May 12, 2012  

    i love how you went on to weddingbee on your phone at the wedding to update us....i'm not being snarky, i really love it.  =)

     
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    SoupyCat    February 6, 2010  

    @Miss Tattoo: agree.

     

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