(Closed) So I'm officially out of the club

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’m so sorry. Please know that it’s better that you’ve found out now, rather than having to end a marriage later. I know that this doesn’t make your heart hurt less, and doesn’t make the practicalities of ending a relationship any less harsh. Sending hugs and positive thoughts for the days ahead. 

Post # 4
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337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@mrsem2bee:  +1

 

I am so so sorry! At least you now see his true colors. Good will come of this eventually, you deserve much better! (HUGS) 

Post # 5
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1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

*Cyber hugs* But its better that you find out now and have the opportunity to move on and find someone mich better for you.

Post # 6
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123 posts
Blushing bee

Oh honey… I’m so sorry.  

I know it doesn’t lessen the heartbreak you’re feeling now… but it’s better that it happened now than after the wedding.

I hope your heart mends soon and you have many happy days in your future.

Post # 7
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1607 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yikes. This is the most horrendous thing I’ve heard today ๐Ÿ™ I’m so sorry.

Post # 8
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839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@msgiraffe2013:  I’m really sorry that you had the misfortune of getting so deeply involved eith somebody who couldn’t commit to you emotionally and felt the need to lie to you about things. I’m also sorry that he then found somebody else, and turned his problems with commitment around on you, claiming that this girl could ‘understand him better than you’. What an asshole. It doesn’t seem so now, but you’re lucky to be shot of him. 

 

But stick around, why don’t you? I don’t know if you were planning to leave WB or not and if you are then we’ll miss you. But there are all sorts on here and WB isn’t the sort of place where they kick you out because you don’t have a ring. It’s just a community of women, all at different stages on their lives, coming together to help and support each other. So even if you’re out of the ‘smug marrieds in training club’ you could still be part of ‘the hive club’. I really hope you stay. 

 

Post # 9
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1658 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

๐Ÿ™ Lots of love and prayers headed your way. I’m glad you parted ways, after hearing about what happened.

I agree with Ruby-Redshoes, stick around the Bee ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I remember your original post and I’m so sorry things didn’t work out!

 

Take some time for yourself: spend time with your girlfriends, cry and bitch, get active, eat right…learn a new skill, or take that trip you always wanted to go on: whatever you want to do for YOU and you alone. Be as selfish as you want to be.

 

It takes time, but it will get better. Promise ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 12
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2098 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I had a broken engagement. I’m really sorry. It’s by far one of the most heart breaking things that happened to me in my dating life.

But you will get over this. It will happen. I send you really good things.

 

Hugs.

Post # 13
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943 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@msgiraffe2013:  ((((HUGS))))  I am so sorry you are going through this.  Everyone always says (and it’s true) that in retrospect you will realized you dodged a bullet and you will end up in a better place, but I know that probably doesn’t help right now.  Take care of yourself, be good to yourself.

Post # 14
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1399 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@msgiraffe2013:  How awful. I’m so sorry he manipulated and hurt you like that. It is better that you found out sooner rather than later, though… hugs to you!

Post # 15
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2497 posts
Buzzing bee

@msgiraffe2013:  I am so sorry. I know it sounds totally cliche to say that you are better off without him, but objectively speaking, you really are. I could never imagine marrying someone like that. While it will undoubtedly be so painful for you now, you will heal and meet someone who will treat you better. Big hugs!

Post # 16
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1721 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@msgiraffe2013:  This happened to me as well with my first engagement. Exact story. I am so sorry.

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