- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
So, fiancee gets a phone call from a family friend (basically like family) who guilt trips him about a) not being invited and b) us planning the wedding quickly. He even implied we had “other reasons” for planning the wedding quickly. Some nerve.
As a background we got engaged in April and are getting married in 2 weeks. So now I have future in laws who are judging me because they think we’re rushing in, even though we’ve been together for four years. Part of the rush was we didn’t want to hear everyone’s opinion on how we’re doing it since we’re paying for it ourselves.
And FBIL is giving me shit too. We were out at dinner and he threatned (seriously) to eat ALL the food (we were all sharing) while FI was running back to the house to get his forgotten wallet. And then he said things like “Oh I guess I have to pay for you too because FI was going to.” Meanwhile I tried to tell him just to wait for FI to get back. Then later we met up with one of my friends and all FBIL could do was tell annoying stories. He told my friend that he lasted 3 hours in bed right in front of her blind date whom she really hit it off with. I don’t understand how some people have no tact. After FBILs stories continued, I told him he was a sociopath and he fit the definition of one from what I had been studying. I was probably out of line but I’m just tired of taking everyone’s crap.