(Closed) SO is in Vegas with his buddies…

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
Member
5668 posts
Bee Keeper

You say you trust him, you know he’s having fun with his buddies, so why are you stressing a text? Invite a girlfriend to coffee if you’re feeling lonely. I’m sorry you’re feeling insecure and you’ve said yourself that there’s no reason to, don’t let yourself get sucked in.

Post # 4
Member
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Why are you assuming he forgot you? The truth is one I’m on vacation even to vegas I check and call Fi maybe only a few times. And it’s because my days are packed, I tried to catch some sleep when I want. From what you said your So has been honest with you in the past, and agreed to not do something because it’ makes you uncomfortable.

I think it’s crazy to stay up until three in the morning waiting for drunken text or phonecalls. Unless you are leaving something out or you have reason not to trust him, it seems like it’s about you then him, and you are feeling insecure,needy, and clingy. Instead of moping around get up get dress, go for a walk, go work out, watch some tv, catch on chores or your sleep. Then call a friend or family member and go out to dinner, dancing, a movie, or nighttime stroll on the beach do something. Don’t spend your whole weekend waiting around for him to call and stewing and moping around and getting yourself into an even deeper funk! Smile Go enjoy yourself!

Post # 5
Member
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I can understand why you are feeling the way you are, but try not to let it get to you.  Whenever FI is away I try to organize some girls nights to stay busy and keep occupied!  Or, do something for yourself that you don’t get to when he is around.  I ususally take the time to clean up around the house or do some sort of craft project! He’ll be back before you know it and the time away from you will make him that much more excited to see you again! 🙂

Enjoy you alone time and independence as he is his!

Post # 7
Member
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Just because he isn’t texting you doesn’t mean he forgotten you it just means he is probably busy at the pool, gambling, watching a show, there are so many different things to do in vegas. If it’s going to bother you that much just send a short simple sweet text. Rather then thinking up things for where he may be and what he is doing. The other things to do in Vegas besides the strip club so he couldn’t have been there the whole time he been gone.

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