SO is working on it

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

Lol don’t worry, vent away. My BF said something similar to that when I first brought it up, so I know it’s damn frustrating because there’s not much we can take from a statement like that! 

 

Hope your guy really is working on something for you <3 as it stands, I know mine isn’t doing anything really right now but I trust him in the long run :3

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

@LoveWillLightTheWay:  “Working on it” sounds a lot like saving up for a ring. I think a lot of women (not saying you in particular) don’t realize how difficult it can be to set aside enough money for the ring of a woman’s dreams. It can take months or even years. I can see why he’s not elaborating. When you talk about money as it relates to a proposal, it can kind of take the romance out of it.

How long have you two been together? It sounds like he is emotionally ready to be engaged, but not financially ready. I would cut him some slack if that’s the case.

ETA: I should probably note that I’ve dealt with the same thing, so I know how you feel.

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