S/O lights up when…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1103 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Hmmm. That’s a tough one. I think part of the issue is in getting used to someone. I love my FI, but I doubt I “light up” around him often anymore. After three years, a little of the excitement goes and is replaced by much more than that. I mean, of course I’d be jealous a little but its jealous of the attention really, not anything else. 


Post # 5
371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Beach

Well me myself light up sometimes when I see an old crush (not an old bf), but an old crush or someone i truley admired in the past. But if I were at a wedding and my previous crush were there I would not def. go and spend the whole day with him even if I see him “rarely”. But that’s just me and he is a man so maybe it’s a bit different. You might want to ask you BF/FI why he wants her around at the wedding if he barley sees or talks to her. Maybe he just want to get back at her for choosing B over him and he wants her to see how happy he is now with you. My FI sometimes lights up at a girl we know (not personally)but with mutual friends and he thinks she’s stunning but I would def. be alarmed if he tells me he wants “her” to be invited to our wedding. 

Good luck and update us on how it goes 

Post # 6
294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

That would bother me a lot especially considering he still feels something for her. I would definitely not invite them to your wedding because you know he will probably end up all over her on your big day. Screw that.

Post # 7
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Eh. He’s going to be too busy at his wedding (being a host) to spend much time with any guest like he can as a normal guest. You are popular at your own wedding lol. If needed just make sure to design the reception dinner or photographs so you get some alone time and it’ll be fine. It’s your wedding day after all! I wouldn’t worry about it too much unless you see this crush growing rather than shrinking. 

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