SO looking at jobs in a different city

posted 3 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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2264 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@LarLa:  I say follow your gut and try the long distance for a while. Like you said, it will be temporary, and you both are committed to your relationship. In this economy, it’s best if both of you are working. Right now, it seems like a year is a long time, but it goes by quicker than you think. Plus, it may be easier for him to find employment in your town after he is gainfully employed elsewhere (retarded I know but his future employment may lead to an opportunity closer to you down the road).

Post # 5
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968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Don’t give up your career/self to follow a boyfriend! I know you said you’re both committed to the relationship but that is a very risky move on your part. If you truly have a strong relationship, it will survive and possibly strengthen through this. Look out for yourself at this point!

Post # 6
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2164 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Fluffmallow:  +1

 

I know it’s hard but you definitely gotta take care of yourself first. You’ve got a good job, stick with it. If everything is working out where he is, maybe you can look for a job there later.

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