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Aww girl. No advice/nothing really to say except to offer ((hugs))!
I'm so sorry :( breakups are never easy for anyone. I'm sure you had good reason to ask him to leave and you know you did the right, but you'll still need time to heal. It's ok to be sad just try and remember that things will get better :)
(((hugs)))
I'm so sorry.
Is there someone you can call to be with you? It might be easier if you're not alone, just someone to sit with you or distract you or listen or whatever.
*HUGS* You could probably use some real hugs so maybe call a friend to come over? I agree with Bella, you had a good reason to ask him to go and it is ok to be sad and things will get better. Take a hot bath, get a nice drink (wine or tea are my choices), and remember to breathe! Whenever I get upset I do that and count my breaths (ex: inhale for 3 exhale for 4)
I truly am sorry its the worst feeling ever! its an emotional time but be strong..
I'm so sorry!! You are so strong for knowing what's right for you and having the strength to make it on your own. I admire that! But, I know nothing we can say can make it better right now. I too think you should call a friend, at least soon.
I'm so sorry for your heartache. I cannot even imagine what that feels like. It sounds like you know you made the right decision, so that is good. Hopefully you have a friend that can be with you during this emotional and transitional time. :/
i'm so sorry to hear that... please know that you have friends here that truly care and only wish you the best in this difficult time. You did the right thing. keep remembering that and focus on you, and friends/family.
(((( tons o hugs ))))
Sorry to hear! Sending hugs and good wishes your way! Things will get better!!! :)
I'm so sorry! I'm sure things will work out for the best!!
**big hug**
(((HUGGSSS))) i know it's hard to do now, but hold onto the hope that things will get better!!!!!
I'm so sorry. I'm sure that you did what was best for you.
I'm so sorry to hear. Breakups are always painful, and never easy. Definitely try to see if there's someone around who could maybe be with you right now. If they can't, keep us updated on how you are. I hope things begin to look up for you.
Hugs coming your way :(
Surround yourself in love ones and
let yourself just pour your emotions out!
were all hear for ya!
So sorry to hear this. Let yourself grieve... but please do something nice for yourself this week so you have something to take your mind off of it. I wish nothing but the best for you!
Thanks girls for all your kind words! it was a difficult night and its an even more difficult day :/
I guess what makes it even harder is we didn't end it because someone did something wrong. We weren't angry. We both parted in tears. We just realized that at this point in our lives we aren't working. We ended it with a "we'll see how it goes but both of us need to make some changes and work on ourselves."
Tomorrow is my birthday. I wish I could go out but I have a huge physical chemistry exam on Wednesday so I'm going to be hold up for the next 2 days to study.
Actually I think that's a better (if not harder) way to end it--you never know what will happen. I did that before with FI when we were teenagers, and I think that space and figuring everything out was what we needed. lots of (((((hugs))))) and again, I really wish the best for you! Good luck on your test... I just finished test 1 of two this week, so I understand
Ohhh I am SO sorry! And I know its probably harder since its around your birthday. You seem like a smart girl. So drop the books, stop studying and go out! You'll do fine on your test!!! Its your birthday and more then ever you need YOU time! I dont know yours and his situation but if it helps most long term couples do need a break. Me and my FI broke up for a while too. Sometimes when your young, love can get in the way of alot of things. What your doing is healthy and its healthy to greive. So cry! Scream! Sing the sappiest, cheesiest break up song as loud as you can! And remember your beautiful! Best of luck girly. It will all work out....somehow, it always does :)
I am so sorry - I know how hard that can be *HUGS*
I'm sorry to hear of your breakup :( That really stinks, especially right before your bd. If you thought it was best for you, then it probably was the right thing to do. Who knows what the future holds & it might hold something even better for you around the corner OR maybe it will bring the 2 of you closer in the future.
Try to have a happy birthday and clear your mind so you can focus on your exam (that is very important!) Breakups are very tough, but you will make it. I wish you the best!
So sorry!!! Hope you have friends or a friend to cheer you up for your birthday tomorrow!!!
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We just broke up. We talked for 2 hours and I finally asked him to move his stuff out. I watched as he put all his things in his trucks. And then I had to see him say goodbye to our dog and it broke my heart. I know I did the right thing for me but I can't stop crying..