Post # 1
I’m trying to Shut it Up! While we were cuddling he tells me he has to find a way to lock me down, he says something about a house arrest anklet, and I put up my left hand and looked at my ring finger lol. Then he starts asking me “why I want to marry him, would I leave him if he lost all of our money, etc.”
Saturday, he offered to iron my clothes before we went out for date night, after he irons my clothes he starts franticly looking for his watch. So I’m just looking at him lol and he says “I can’t lose my watch that’s the only piece of jewelry I wear, until you know…” and he gives me this look.
The next day while we were in the mall and he says to me, what if I buy you one of those rings ( they were CZ’s in a case) I said to him “Oh look the jewelry store with diamonds are right there and I’m sure they have emerald cuts” He said ” I’m sure they have any cut you want…” smh. I tried to be good but he kept bringing it up.
Any other Bees struggle to SIU over the weekend?
Post # 3
Im not part of the SIU pact or anything but I still try not to talk about it too much..anyway..this weekend bf had to go over to one of his friends to help him out with something and when he got home he decided to tell me that he was talking to his friend and his friends wife about getting engaged. But he doesnt stop there, oh no, he continues to tell me all the ideas they were throwing at him and asking about his ring budget and everything you could possibly imagine that has to do with a wedding. Like Im talking food, decor, themes..and his friends are a little different..they were suggesting a winter wedding (uhh no thanks, I really dont want to wear a winter jacket over a beautiful wedding dress and freeze my ass off in the proccess) and a medieval wedding (again, not my thing). Then he asks me why Im not saying a whole lot about it and that “he thought all chicks liked to talk about wedding stuff all the time”…I seriously could have choked him then.
Also, my friend is going to cuba in a couple weeks and I told bf and he says “well we COULD go to cuba IF YOU REALLY WANT TO (of course I wanna go to cuba!! Its hot and there are beaches!! Who wouldnt want to go), I do have enough saved up for a week for us but that would take away from something else” UGGHH seriously!
So at least you werent the only one having a difficult time this weekend lol
Post # 4
@sparky263: Yes, it feels good not to be alone lol I can’t believe he told you he had enough saved for Cuba but it would take away from something else…that it TOUGH! I think I might have said “let’s do cuba..I don’t need a ring to be engaged just for you to ask me” Ha!
Post # 5
@MrsWe: haha I totally would have jumped all over the chance to go to cuba but we have two young children and nobody to take them for a week..plus theres time off work and whatnot..would really just be a big headache lol. But yes, it was definitely tough, I couldnt even respond to him without being snarky and sarcastic haha