- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Sorry ladies but I just need to vent something. My friend is getting married in May and I am one of her bm’s. Her sister of course is the maid of honor but she is 20 years old and extremely into partying every night. So bad that she has her license suspended for a year for DUI. Her other two bm’s do not call her or ask about her wedding. They barely just got bought their dresses a week ago and complained that they had to pay a rush fee. So, I have really tried to help her with planning her wedding, along with my own thats in 5 months.
A few weeks ago, I face booked her other bm’s to try to plan a shower and bachelorette party for the bride. I knew the bride would be in her home town to try on her wedding dress and since the 2 uninvolved bm’s live their I thought it would be perfect for us all to surprise her by showing up at her fitting, then go to the specific cocktail lounge and rent out a room and have a shower/bachelorette party, rent a limo and take her out on the town.
I called the bride’s mom to see what she thought. She loved it. She gave me her sister’s number and I called and told her all of this and she loved it as well. Well, I had to end up talking to the bride about dates because she had another shower being thrown for her from her fiances family and I basically had to tell her what we had planned. She was really thankful but so stressed out and nervous about it all and said she just didn’t have time before the wedding for anything else like this so we decided to plan a fun little outing after the wedding.
So….today I get a facebook message from her sister to all the bm’s stating SHE has this idea of us showing up to her fitting and us all going to this specific restaurant (that I told her the bride likes!) and surprising her with a limo and taking her out for a night on the town?!?
Really?? I’m so irritated! I don’t know what to do or if I should do anything at all. I’m definetly not saying anything to the bride, but should I say something in a tactful way to her sister or just let this go??