(Closed) So much crap going on… (VENT)

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. <3 All I can say is to try to hold on to each other, and be understanding that the fighting is from stress. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

((hugs))  

It’s tough enough when one partner is under stress, but you both are.  Make sure you take some time, both apart and together, to reflect on what you’re going through.  Talk about how you each react to stress, how you are feeling, what you need from the other, and find a way to better meet your own and each other’s needs.

And at 4 days late, a PG test should be accurate.  Take a test so that at least that stressor can be off your mind for the moment.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m sorry you are going through this. You need each other most. Just be very pateint with him–you are doing all that you can. Pray and love each other. And just like a PP said take a pg test. I would not be surpised if it is becuase of the stress though. Think positive and sending well wishes your way.

Post # 7
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3943 posts
Honey bee

So sorry you are dealing with this. I know what an awful disease Alzheimers is and its tough for the whole family.

As for the period, its probably the stress. I missed mine last month due to stress but a test will put your mind at ease.

Good luck!!

Post # 8
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6124 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@DeathByDesign:  I’m so sorry, thinking of you and hoping you can get through this.

Post # 9
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5969 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Oh honey…when it rains, it pours and you are in the middle of a tropical storm.  I can relate, and it’s totally normal to feel helpless and frustrated and to bite each other’s heads off in the middle of this, if it were me, I would line up a dog lover babysitter, to sit with your poor puppy, go out for a nice dinner, and a one night vacay from your problems….even just a few hours to set it all down, reconnect as a couple and remember that in spite of the bad, there’s good too…its a priceless marriage tool.

Post # 10
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886 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@DeathByDesign:  Hope things have gotten better since your last post! Not eating, stress, all of these things can definitely mess up your cycle. Whenever things get rough and I realize I’ve started lashing out at the SO, I remind myself that it’s not him or me rather the situation. I try to verbalize my ongoing love in some way shape or form after apologizing. It’s hard, though. And every marriage hits rough patches at some point. ::hugs::

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