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So my psycho MIL is getting married...

posted 2 years ago in Family
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    yrret107    November 28, 2009   Seattle, WA; Married in West Chester, PA

    Yeah, so she's getting married.  Her boyfriend (now FI) asked her over the weekend.

    Remember my post..."FMIL really wants to rub it in- her songs for the mother son dance."  Yeah, she's the one who is getting married.

    I can't seem to figure out how I feel about it.  Since we still don't get along, I really don't care. (I don't find anything wrong with it, she's in her 50s and there's nothing  wrong with finding someone you love at her age.  I think all the negative feeling is coming from our rocky past.) (Oh, DH and I had this conversation about whether his mom would get married again.. and he told me no because of how it ended with his dad.  So we all are a bit suprised.)  Anyway, this guy that she will be marrying is a nice guy.  He was nice to me at my wedding.

    But my DH asked me to call her to congratulate her.  Yeah, right.... don't think that's going to happen.  Considering the hell I went through with her and her expectations for my wedding and plus the fact that she was complaining and making fun of the ceremony after it ended. (She was saying this outloud  and at the church and my sister's husband over heard her.)  Yeah, she is still not on my good side.

    I may seem like a witch if you don't know the history between me and the MIL... but those of you who do know that I'm just here to vent and that I wouldn't do anything mean to her and I don't really care for her at this point.

     

    Anyway, you know how she wanted to play the song... 'better shop around' at my wedding... wouldn't it be funny if I requested it at hers!  LOL  (I know I wouldn't be that mean to do it.. but something I was thinking.)

    Plus, she gave me and DH some grief about having a catholic wedding.  The guy who she will be marrying is a full catholic. HAHA  This guy went to our wedding and was disappointed that we didn't offer communion.... I wonder what type of ceremony they have.  (BYW, she and my DH was against having communion.  I kinda didn't want it... so we decided not to have a full mass.) She actually told me a year ago (when we used to get along) that she is against the catholic church.  I wonder who will win the discussion about what type of church to get married in. That should get interesting.

    Anyway, that's all for now. I just want to get this all out there.

    I'm all nice now... lol

     

     
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    As much as I want to tell you to be the better person, I remember your last post about this woman and all I want to tell you to do is give her as much grief about her wedding as possible. Karma, baby!

     
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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    haha well her wedding planning should be very interesting!!  Be careful.. she may join weddingbee! lolol  Like Kitty said.. Karma and it is a bitch! lol

     
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    eeniebeans    October 9, 2010   Baltimore

    What goes around comes around.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Karma is a bitch!  I hope she doesn't show up here and find your old posts somehow!  I wouldn't be too nice to her since she was driving you crazy and being mean at your wedding!

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I am with you, no congratulations for that witch!  Maybe you should put up a big stink at her wedding how you want a song medley to dance to with your husband....? Wink 

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Your MIL is totally psycho. Once you mentioned the song I was like "omg that lady?! Oh no!"

    You are not obligated to be extra nice by any means! Just be cordial and then stare daggers her way.....

     
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    Ms Mini    July 17, 2010   Medicine Hat, AB

    I wouldn't be reaching out to her in any way, shape or form ... and because I am evil I would definitely anonymously request "you better shop around" at her wedding! 

    Karma is a biotch and she will get back what she doled out ... 

     

     
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    pmerr    August 14, 2010   Rochester, NY

    I definitely wouldn't be calling up to offer a congrats. You're DH should be the one doing that. 

    I would so request "you better shop around", but I'm not really one to hold back too much :) Keep us updated on the planning :) can't wait to hear if she get's anything back for what she did to you.

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    I wouldn't be calling to say congrats, either! The second you said the issue with the song, I knew who it was. I mean, seriously?!?! MAke sure that Karma comes back, girl!!!

     

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