- 8 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
Yeah, so she’s getting married. Her boyfriend (now FI) asked her over the weekend.
Remember my post…”FMIL really wants to rub it in- her songs for the mother son dance.” Yeah, she’s the one who is getting married.
I can’t seem to figure out how I feel about it. Since we still don’t get along, I really don’t care. (I don’t find anything wrong with it, she’s in her 50s and there’s nothing wrong with finding someone you love at her age. I think all the negative feeling is coming from our rocky past.) (Oh, DH and I had this conversation about whether his mom would get married again.. and he told me no because of how it ended with his dad. So we all are a bit suprised.) Anyway, this guy that she will be marrying is a nice guy. He was nice to me at my wedding.
But my DH asked me to call her to congratulate her. Yeah, right…. don’t think that’s going to happen. Considering the hell I went through with her and her expectations for my wedding and plus the fact that she was complaining and making fun of the ceremony after it ended. (She was saying this outloud and at the church and my sister’s husband over heard her.) Yeah, she is still not on my good side.
I may seem like a witch if you don’t know the history between me and the MIL… but those of you who do know that I’m just here to vent and that I wouldn’t do anything mean to her and I don’t really care for her at this point.
Anyway, you know how she wanted to play the song… ‘better shop around’ at my wedding… wouldn’t it be funny if I requested it at hers! LOL (I know I wouldn’t be that mean to do it.. but something I was thinking.)
Plus, she gave me and DH some grief about having a catholic wedding. The guy who she will be marrying is a full catholic. HAHA This guy went to our wedding and was disappointed that we didn’t offer communion…. I wonder what type of ceremony they have. (BYW, she and my DH was against having communion. I kinda didn’t want it… so we decided not to have a full mass.) She actually told me a year ago (when we used to get along) that she is against the catholic church. I wonder who will win the discussion about what type of church to get married in. That should get interesting.
Anyway, that’s all for now. I just want to get this all out there.
I’m all nice now… lol