- roadside tom
- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Please read my previous post if you can be bothered, I’ll make more sense that way.
We had the best day ever, the weather was perfect and everything went smoothly, other that the fact that my Bridesmaid or Best Man left my bouquet on the roof of the car and we drove off with out it. (it was a 2 door car and I was sitting in the back.) But lucky this only happened up the road from the ceremony!! And the bouquet was still alright looking when someone went back to get it 🙂 everything was perfect. Well except my dress because I had a shoddy dress maker who put plastic boning instead of steel boning in my dress. She said she’d sew the bra in, and then didn’t! And because of the cheap plastic boning the dress kept slipping and revealing my bra. I try not to think about it, but when I get my pro pics back and if you can see my bra, I will definitely be complaing!
So anyway! some updates!
- My FI’s did not attend our wedding.
- A man that replaces watch batteries and links in bracelets and necklaces etc totally ruined my husband’s wedding ring!
- God parents spoke to Husband’s dad to try and talk things through and he denied that SIL ever said to me “you ARE malicious!” and said we were lying about all of it! And he apparently almost started crying because he couldn’t believe that we’d lie like that. I am in shock of that whole lie saying we lied.
I feel so tired of it! I don’t know if I should say anythng to his parents. The only way they can ever be in our lives is if they start being honest with themselves and everyone else. I don’t want anything to do with them til then. I don’t want their passive aggressive letters! I don’t want their guilt trips! And i don’t want their blame! And I’m sick of the rest of Husband’s family telling us “stop being so pigheaded” when they don’t even know our side of the story and refuse to hear it. I want to move on and enjoy being married to the most wonderful man on earth. I feel so melancholy about the whole thing, I’m so hurt for him and I can’t seem to shake it 🙁 what can i do?