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So no one showed to my bachelorette party :(

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    Luxuryshoegal88    September 24, 2011   San Diego

    Okay, so tonight was supposed to be my bachelorette party. My childhood friend asked if she could plan it because I don't have a MOH or BM due to FI culutral background. I of course said she could. I bought a plane ticket for a date that would work for both of us as I grew up in Ohio and now live in CA. So I booked my flight back in June. I tried contacting her about 6 weeks ago and she said she would still do it. 4 weeks prior nothing. So I go ahead and send out an evite to my girlfriends. Still don't hear anything from the supposed hostess. Finally. she emails me to let me know that she will be out of town and won't be able to make the party or my shower. The 5 other girls I didn't hear from. 2 said they would try to come, 1 said she would come and 2 were MIA. Well, tonight no one showed. I texted the girl who said she was coming this morning and she told me she was "all jammed up with stuff to do" and would try to make time for me? I feel totally snubbed :/. My mom is doing my bridal shower tomorrow and I'm just scared to have the same kind of turn out. I'm trying to keep my head up and stay positive but, I'm not going to lie I'm really trying hard to hold back the tears.

     
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    Lady Baker    October 2014  

    @Luxuryshoegal88: Holy crap, I'm so sorry! This is terrible and great job that your friend dropped the ball about planning it all and making sure she'd be in town!!!!!

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    I am so sorry to hear that.

     

    ((Hugs)) to you. Here's hoping tomorrow is a better day.

     
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    Mollytov    August 29, 2011   Vancouver

    Ugh! That totally sucks and i'm sorry it happened! If it was me, i would be taking myself to the hair salon for a blow out and then directly to a patio to enjoy a glass of cold white wine. 

    I'm really sorry. I hope tomorrow is a blast! 

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    I'm sorry hon. There's no other way to say it, but that sucks. ((hugs)) I hope tomorrow is tons of fun.

     
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    Luxuryshoegal88    September 24, 2011   San Diego

    Thanks. I dragged my little sister out of bed to keep me company for now :)

     
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    mcnetn3    August 13, 2011   North Carolina

    I'm sorry.  Your 'friend' really let you down on this one.  I'm sure if your mom put together a shower that it'll be a very nice event and that she covered all her bases.

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    @Luxuryshoegal88: I vote you do something that you love tonight...go out for dessert and wine maybe? I am so sorry. THis sucks. some people get to wraped up in their own lives. It sucks but it happens. I never really realized how important these type of wedding things are until I got married. however, I was the first of my friends to get married. I had a sleepover with my sisters and mom for my bachlorette :) 

     
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    blingybride    February 2011  

    I am SO very sorry this happened to you. I am sure your shower will be lovely. It sounds like your friend's flakey planning lead to this so don't feel bad about yourself. Moms are great, so I'm sure you'll be showered with love & goodies tomorrow. Let us know how your shower goes.

     
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    vicozzie    May 19, 2012  

    Awww that is so not cool! I agree with the above that you really need to go do something for you tonight! I don't blame you at all for feeling let down and hurt, and I think it's terrible that someone would allow this all to turn out this way for you.

    I hope you can find a way to enjoy something this evening and good thing you have what I'm sure will be  a wonderful shower to look forward to tomorrow. When you get back to CA, get a bunch of your girlfriends together and have a REDO bachelorette party.

     

     
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    Pinksapphire      

    I am so sorry, hun =[  That really sucks.  I really don't have any friends, so I doubt I will have a Bachelorette, either.  Kinda makes me sad, but I would rather be with my FI then some fake girls who don't care about me.

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Oh Im so sorry! Sometimes things just fall to bits and there is really no good reason for why. I'm glad you got your sis to keep you company and great things to look forward to. I'm sure your shower will go fine!

    What culture is FI from? We don't have MOH or BM' either technically :)

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    I vote we throw you a virtual b-party.

    I'll bring the penis straws.

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Rainbow Straws

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    And here's your sash

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding 41xDLUqgxYL. SL500 AA300

     
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    Luxuryshoegal88    September 24, 2011   San Diego

    Fi is Russian :). My sister is 13. I think I'm going to get some ice cream & wine :) Ill let you know how tmrw goes hopefully much better. My mom has done a good job from what I can see so far (our house is already decorated/cleaned etc). So I know she did her part :)

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @SoontobeMrsA: Ooo... good idea!

    Here's your bachelorette sash and crown!

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Glitterblackbachsash

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Bachelorette Pecker Party Crown~8203341

    Yes... those are pink penises.

     
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    fvsoccer    November 4, 2011   Colorado

    @Luxuryshoegal88: I'm so sorry dear! Sometimes people can be so mean and selfish. We're here if you need a virtual shoulder to cry on! Try to let go of it and be the friend they wish they were to you :(

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding 1306178411 72

    And of course Jello Shots

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Jello Shots

     
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    Rileyxoxo3    September 17, 2011   Philadelphia

    @KatNYC2011: LOL you girls are awesome!!! Posting them pics just almost brought me to tears!!( Even though they have manly parts on them ) lol... You ladies being there is great, I love this site.. Its refreshing to see such good people when I'm so used to the cold world that consist of so many aholes.. TO US LADIES ON HERE!!So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Girls Toasting

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Ill bring the boys!

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Male Strippers

     
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    Heatherloveskenny    June 4, 2011  

    oh no :( I am so sorry girl. I hope tomorrow's outcome is better!

    but for now I'll add to the virtual bachelorette party, here's the crazy party bus...woooo!

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Party Bus Limo

     

     
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    Luxuryshoegal88    September 24, 2011   San Diego

    Omg thank you. I just finshed a bowl of ice cream and am working on my glass of wine. This made me smile and cry. You guys are the best! :)

     
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    blingybride    February 2011  

    I'm joining LuxuryShoegal88's Bach Party and I'm buying a round for the Bachelorette & all the Bees!!!!!  CHEERS!!!!!!!!!!So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Drinks

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    @blingybride: gracias! I needed a drink! Cheers to Luxuryshoegal88's upcoming marriage and her remaining days as a single bee ;)

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Anyone want a cookie?

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Penis 1

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Cheers to you Luxuryshoegal88. 

     
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    Rileyxoxo3    September 17, 2011   Philadelphia

    @SoontobeMrsA: lol!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Mr. A just looked over my shoulder and was like why the hell are you googling penis cookies?

     

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    Judging from your name on here, these might cheer you up!

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding B04e55a29f115ff1162da75529d0a72327cf396c 200 Lady Fox-Heel Platform Slingback

     
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    Oneeleven    April 7, 1992   Ontario, Canada, Getting married in the Mayan Riviera

    aw you guys are all so awesome who posted those pics!   cheers to you @Luxuryshoegal88:

     
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    Rileyxoxo3    September 17, 2011   Philadelphia

    @SoontobeMrsA: hahahaha

     
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    blingybride    February 2011  

    @SoontobeMrsA- LMAO!

    @Mrs.Argentina- De nada amiga!

     

     
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    Rileyxoxo3    September 17, 2011   Philadelphia

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ykQwOSXBGS8&feature=share CHEERS!!!!!!

    I'll supply the music lol

     
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    Luxuryshoegal88    September 24, 2011   San Diego

    Thank you Loubs! Penises! Drinks! What more could a single girl want?! hahaha. I dont know what I would do without you girls! This was single handly the best outcome I could have ever wished for :) Thank u x a million!

     
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    Oneeleven    April 7, 1992   Ontario, Canada, Getting married in the Mayan Riviera

    @Rileyxoxo3:

    is this xrated? :p

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    I knew the Loubs would get you.  No one can be sad when there are such nice shoes to be had ;-)

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    I got dollar bills for the male strippers!

    So no one showed to my bachelorette party :( :  wedding Hand Holding Several Dollar Bills

     
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    LoveliestLove    July 19, 2010  

     @Luxuryshoegal88:

    WERE HERE FOR U! HANG OUT WITH US TONIGHT!!!!

    I live in MI, where in oh do u live? Hahaha, I'll meet up with u if no ones shows tomorrow!!! 

    I pray things go just as u hope for tomorrow and I am so sorry for what happend tonight:(

    Best wishes!!!

    We Bees stick together!!!Kiss XOOOOOOO

     
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    katieebee    July 22, 2011   Houston

    I'm here!!!  

    Ooohh oohh  ohhh...can there be a pole dancing class???

     

     

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    @Luxuryshoegal88: This cheered me right up too :) I'm sorry your girls fell through but we are here for you!!

     
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