S/O (of my own thread!) How would you rate your sex life?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What would you rate your sex life with SO?
    1 : (3 votes)
    3 %
    2 : (2 votes)
    2 %
    3 : (6 votes)
    7 %
    4 : (2 votes)
    2 %
    5 : (7 votes)
    8 %
    6 : (13 votes)
    15 %
    7 : (14 votes)
    16 %
    8 : (15 votes)
    17 %
    9 : (18 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 4
    Member
    1734 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 1998

    Our sex life is fairly scarce, so I’d say a 3 or 4. There are (and always has been) other issues as well, but for the most part, it gets the job done.

    Post # 5
    Member
    3515 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    We have totally opposite work schedules, so that makes it rough for us to actually be together to have sex. When it does happen it’s great.. but I voted a 6, only because we don’t get the chance very often and it bums me out.

    Post # 6
    Member
    8419 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    My husband is amazing in bed (only guy I’ve ever climaxed with during intercourse), but I think his sex drive is higher than mine so there times when he wants to and I’m just along for the ride.  I voted 9 because while the sex is pretty mind blowing most of the time, sometimes I’m just not feeling it (usually because I’ve had too much ice cream or something lol).

    Post # 7
    Member
    4072 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I voted 8. I’m thrilled that we’re totally on the same level regarding things we’re into. We’re not extremely kinky, but we’re both far from vanilla. We’re never hesitant to suggest something new! We more or less have the same sex drive too. We definitely have room for improvement though!

    Post # 8
    Member
    2884 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    previously – an 8. i loved it when we did it, but there was some slight room for improvement and i would have liked to do it more 😛

    now – hard to judge. pregnancy has killed off my sex drive. I find getting aroused much harder and its much harder to enjoy sex when we do it. its about as appealing as a 10k run is to a couch potato. bizarrely it has increased my husband’s drive – im wondering if my pregnancy has made him feel all manly and virile haha

    Post # 9
    Member
    129 posts
    Blushing bee

    I’d say a 9. I used to have really low sex drive, and it mentally affected both of us. So now, after that 2 years of not having a drive, our sex life is just amazing. Every time is different for us, but there are some elements that are the same. We know what each other likes, and both just want to please the other, which makes it really great.

    Post # 10
    Member
    712 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I would say a 9. We know how to make each other feel good and we are matched in terms of kinkiness level. My sex drive is slightly higher but we make it work. My husband and I have a wonderful sexual connection; I would not have settled for less in that area.

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