Post # 1
My sexting thread got me thinking, after someone responded that it keeps their sex life interesting.
SO: How would you rate your sex life with your SO? Let’s go with a 1-10 option…
10 being MIND BLOWN EVERY TIME, OMG MY LIFE IS CHANGED.
5 being pretty good, gets the job done.
1 being ugh, really? Again? Can’t I just go to sleep?
Post # 3
Ok, I added a poll for some anonymous results.
I’ll go first: I would rate Darling Husband and I with a 8.5 or 9. I can’t say it’s a 10, but that’s mostly because we don’t have the time to do everything we want to do. Ugh!
Overall, I would say we’re doing well. We mix things up a lot, but we have our “tried-and-true” things that always work. We definitely have the chemistry factor, so everything else is just gravy. 🙂
Post # 4
Our sex life is fairly scarce, so I’d say a 3 or 4. There are (and always has been) other issues as well, but for the most part, it gets the job done.
Post # 5
We have totally opposite work schedules, so that makes it rough for us to actually be together to have sex. When it does happen it’s great.. but I voted a 6, only because we don’t get the chance very often and it bums me out.
Post # 6
My husband is amazing in bed (only guy I’ve ever climaxed with during intercourse), but I think his sex drive is higher than mine so there times when he wants to and I’m just along for the ride. I voted 9 because while the sex is pretty mind blowing most of the time, sometimes I’m just not feeling it (usually because I’ve had too much ice cream or something lol).
Post # 7
I voted 8. I’m thrilled that we’re totally on the same level regarding things we’re into. We’re not extremely kinky, but we’re both far from vanilla. We’re never hesitant to suggest something new! We more or less have the same sex drive too. We definitely have room for improvement though!
Post # 8
previously – an 8. i loved it when we did it, but there was some slight room for improvement and i would have liked to do it more 😛
now – hard to judge. pregnancy has killed off my sex drive. I find getting aroused much harder and its much harder to enjoy sex when we do it. its about as appealing as a 10k run is to a couch potato. bizarrely it has increased my husband’s drive – im wondering if my pregnancy has made him feel all manly and virile haha
Post # 9
I’d say a 9. I used to have really low sex drive, and it mentally affected both of us. So now, after that 2 years of not having a drive, our sex life is just amazing. Every time is different for us, but there are some elements that are the same. We know what each other likes, and both just want to please the other, which makes it really great.
Post # 10
I would say a 9. We know how to make each other feel good and we are matched in terms of kinkiness level. My sex drive is slightly higher but we make it work. My husband and I have a wonderful sexual connection; I would not have settled for less in that area.