(Closed) So rude!!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2634 posts
Sugar bee

I’m sorry, but I kind of think you’re reading too much into this.  Sadly people, esp. men in my experience, are just somewhat cynical about this, but it’s generally in a “razzing” sort of way. 

Don’t let it get you down.

Post # 4
553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Was the tone joking?
Otherwise, I would be kind of bothered a little bit too. At least he doesn’t care and you guys don’t hang out with them much.

Congratulations on your engagement!

Post # 5
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Sorry, but that is just how guys communicate. It is also really hard to read tone on the internet. I am sure they were just giving him a hard time the ways guys do.

Post # 6
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yuck, some people have no couth.  I’ve heard it all before.  Its really annoying.  Chances are they’re just juvenile guys, unable to find someone to settle down with.  So its better to make fun of someone for being that fortunate.  I wouldn’t let it bother you.  Obviously your Fiance doesn’t think the same way they do, otherwise he wouldn’t of proposed.  Congrats, by the way 🙂

Post # 7
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Aw HUGS!  I totally know how you feel.  We’re the first in FI’s group of friends from high school to get engaged and a lot of the guys were giving him a hard time.  It really bothered me at first, but then it was like why do I care what you think?  The only reason you would give someone a hard time for getting married is if you’re not happy with yourself.  Telling myself that helped me 🙂

-Good Luck and congrats!

Post # 8
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wouldn’t get upset about  it. Seems like  a normal reaction from single guy friends. Our engagements aren’t that excting to everyone.

Post # 9
2872 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I have no idea why guys do that, but it is SOOO annoying.  I would try to brush it off

Post # 10
129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Guys do that all the time!  It is normal male behavior sadly.  Sometimes they are just teasing and sometimes, they are actually sad about their own lives.  So don’t let it get to you.  It’s really their problem that they think that way, not yours.

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