So scared. Need good vibes.

posted 3 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

That sounds SO stressful!

Try to relax when you can, and good luck! I hope everything works out for you!

Post # 4
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7531 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Take care of yourself.  Things may not work out how you’ve planned, but they will always work out. 

Post # 5
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9219 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@KateByDesign:  ((HUGS))  Oh, wow, that’s so rough.  I will keep you in my thoughts.  We’re also closing on a new house soon and the stress is awful, but nothing compared to what you’re going through.  My prayers are with you.

Post # 6
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644 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Sending positive vibes. Can you have a conversation with your boss/supervisor? If you’ve been a good employee I would really hope they could keep you on as an employee for the next few weeks, I don’t think they would even need to actually pay you!

Post # 8
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2372 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

I know nothing about the legal world, but hopefully things need, well, “closed out” on the case?  Hopefully they just want to wait until the new tax year is started to do anything?  Hopefully they aren’t feeling grinchy and want to keep people through the holidays? Those are the three good (well, better) scenarios I am trying to send your way through good vibes!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

@KateByDesign:  that would make sense to me!  I mean the legal jargon alone… I wouldn’t be able to interpret that stuff enough to know where/how/when to file it!  Plus if its a larger company I bet the execs don’t want to put their own or their other staff’s time into it right before the holidays, I’m sure they budgeted to keep you longer so why not just let you guys do it?

It all makes sense in my head, anyway!

Post # 15
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811 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Argh!  I was in situation where I had a new job accepted but could not give notice until our closing day at the earliest, bc we could lose the loan or have to go back to the beginning of the process if the loan officers found out.  It was hell for a few weeks!  They never verified my employment on closing, and I found out that they sometimes don’t…..but they always say they check. Varies from company to company. 

My point is, sounds like you don’t have much control over when they let you go…keep working and doing your job as long as you have it.  Hopefully you won’t have to worry!  If they let you go, I wouldn’t say a word about it and hope that they don’t check on closing day.   

 

Good luck, I hope it works out!

Post # 16
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11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@KateByDesign:  Ugh I’m sorry you’ve had a tough year and this is one more thing to add to the mix. I don’t know how much help it would be, but I would definitely bring up your concerns with your boss and be open and honest about it. Maybe they can work something out for you.

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