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I am so scared and didn't know where else I could turn where people would understand quite like you all could.  My wedding is less than a month away.  I am marrying the most wonderful man on the planet, and I love my future in-laws very much. 

My future FIL has been having weird chest pains for about 2 weeks.  He decided to go to the doctor to get it checked out and it turns out he needs to have an aortic valve replacement.  Yep...open heart surgery! We're thinking that it's going to happen around Thursday of this week. I am so scared for him...and for us.  I know that my FH wants his father to be at our wedding...but he may not even be able to come.  (And I don't want to even think about the worst case scenerio...that would be devistating on so many levels).

I just want him to be ok.  I want him to be around for a long, long time.  I would be dissapointed if he couldn't be there on our wedding day - but I just want him to be ok.  That's all that matters in the end.

I don't even know what I wanted to come out of this post.  I just needed to vent my fears somewhere.

Thanks! I'm just going into the week with the positive feeling that he will be ok.  It's not even about him being there (although I would love for him to be....he's great!) I just want him to be around for a long time, ya know?