(Closed) So sick of DH's family excluding me

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Wonderstruck:  Honestly, I don’t think that you’re over-reacting.  I would be really upset as well.  These are family photos; they will be on the wall and you won’t be in them because they did not give you notice or even sort of attempt to work with you in order to find a date that worked for everyone.

What does your DH say?  Personally, I would hope that he would also refuse to go.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Wonderstruck:  Well…at least they don’t get what they want?  Gah!  What a crappy situation.

Your DH might have to address the problem directly.  I mean, if they cared about both of you being there, they would have given you more notice and worked with you to find an acceptable date.  The fact is, they are making it very difficult, if not impossible, for you to attend and that’s ridiculous.  

If it were me, I’d say something like “It really seems like you don’t want us to be able to be there.  If you did, you would have gone about it differently.  You keep doing stuff like this and it makes us feel extremely unwelcome”.  

The bit about the children and “looks” would make me want to slap her after awhile.  That’s HORRIBLE.  

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