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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    I started planning my wedding a year in a half ago so at this point i would be stress free and still beable to maintane sanity.  Sadly that is not the case the wedding is in four months and I have so much done but still there is so much to do yet like invitation labels and homework for school im just a little overwhelmed.  I'm also getting super excited.  My mother in law took me and showed me what the reception is going to look like and its beautiful.  Also my save the dates came in and they are beautiful. Things are finally starting to turn around.  For awhile their there was dramma polooza.  Between fighting over napkins and a bridesmaid wanting to drop out because she just decided last week she is going to get married May.

    Is anyone else feeling supper stressed

     
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    Jizes318    November 19, 2010   Miami

    i am right there with you. I have nothing but headaches from this madness. I hope when the day comes it will all be worth it. I had two bridesmaids drop out and it was fighting.. i realizedthey wernt who i thought they were, money stress, guest list ooh so much. I almost wanted to just elope. Things are a little smoother but man oh man please no more.

     
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    Mrs2theDr    April 16, 2010   Chicago, IL

    Oh yes....my wedding is 2 months away and I am just all over the place. We checked off a million things in January, and I am just so tired that I haven't really done much in Feb except mail the invitations. We too started planning super early, and while we got a whole lot done still a lot to do. However, I must say that we don't have a whole lot...and I really really plan to have it all finished by early March so I can't just enjoy the last few weeks!

     
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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    I agree must of the fighting was about stupid stuff and your just like ok why am i fighting about what cake me and my Fancee want lol.  Yes please please no more lol.

     
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    Mrs2theDr    April 16, 2010   Chicago, IL

    Oh the infamous guestlist....just wait until the invites go out (we mailed ours Feb 6th) and those who are not invited find out....woo-sah...lol....luckily its been my fiance, and in-laws who have been approached by people begging to get an invite or asking to bring a guest (always someone we don;t know)....ughhh

     
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    JoonBee    06/2010  

    I am super stressed. lol  I just pray that everything works out by wedding day. haha

     
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    thefuturemrsgibbs    June 12, 2010   Northern California

    gingerkid4god We are date twins! Yes I'm feeling superrr stressed out. It feels like I'm planning my wedding alone although I do have some help. It's overwhelming. Only 112 days to go!! Good luck and happy planning!

     
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    Worry Wart    July 2010  

    I think all, if not most, brides feel stressed out, especially as the wedding date gets closer.  I think it's normal.  I've been feeling stressed, too, because we're super behind in the wedding planning process and I work full time and have to study, too. 

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    it gets worse once you are below 100 days.  at least it did for me.

     
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    Oh dear god! I'm 190 days or so out and I'm already pushing it to fit everything in! ahh! SO BAD TO HEAR THAT IT GETS MUCH WORSE!!!!

    I keep cramming in a little me time each week though. It really keeps me going. Good luck Gingerkid!

     
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    pinkunicorn84      

    Right there with you - though my stress is related to nerves at standing up in front of everyone and (gulp) the first dance.  I don't like being stared at, I just wish we'd eloped!!!

     

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