- 5 years ago
When a Bee thinks about her wedding and goes through the different stages of planning. When she goes to the craft store with her Fiance to pick out tulle for their reception decorations. When she envisions her wedding day.
These are all times when a Future Misses should be happy. She should be thinking fond thoughts and be excited for what the future brings.
Me? Well, I mostly feel that way. But after delving into the nitty gritty of wedding planning, i.e.: the budgetting and cost of this shindig, i’ve found myself doing nothing by fretting and stressing and crying.
I just got done having a sobfest because I am so completely worried about how my Fiance and I are supposed to pay for our wedding. We don’t make much and have next-to-nothing in savings. We plan on using a credit card for the photographer to delay upfront costs there, but when it comes to the caterer and the reception site, we’re completely screwed.
Why don’t vendors offer credit card payments?! Do they like to see us squirm and freak out?!
I’m at a loss. We are getting *some* help from family, but other than that, we’re stuck with almost the entire bill.
I know this concern has been brought up by countless Brides before me and I have done some research. But I guess I would just appreciate some feedback and well, honestly … encouragement. 🙁