(Closed) So tempted to take a peek at the ring!!!

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m bad. I would go click that email.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

BUT, in reality, you should have him change the password lol.

Post # 5
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Worker bee

Even though you’re already engaged, please don’t ruin this for your FI. I imagine he’d like to see your face the first time you see the ring. Surprisingly, this can be a really big/meaningful thing for men. I would hate for you to take that away from him.

 

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Don’t look!! It will be SO much better seeing it in person for the first time.  It’s difficult I know!! But it’s like knowing what you are getting on Christmas morning. Self control!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@sheepandbear:  Word.

Not saying it’s the right thing to do, it’s just what I would do.

Then again I’m also the person who found out that the hubs was researching diamonds by finding links in his “Pharmacy – Flu Vaccine” bookmark folder. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Don’t look!  I resisted the temptation to check FI’s email when I knew the proposal was near, and I’m glad I did!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I’m sure it’s tough not to go snooping; however, think about what snooping might do to your relationship. He gave you permission to go look in his email for the Netflix bill. He didn’t give you permission to look at anything else in there. Maybe you and your fiance are the type of people who are completely open with one another (and that’s a good thing), but he might consider it a betrayal of trust for you to go in and snoop around for the email about the ring.

Besides, think of how amazing it will be when you see him holding the ring and how special it will be for him to see you looking at it for the first time. You may already be engaged, but I feel like that would be an incredibly special and beautiful moment for you two to share together.

And Christmas is only a few weeks away. I know it seems like forever right now, but it’s not that long to wait. Smile

 

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