So the MOH here need help!!

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@eecuadrado:  It’s one day and you only have to spend a few minutes (maybe 15 total) standing next to this guy during the ceremony, some pictures, and the reception entrances.  I don’t think it’s out of line to ask that you not be seated next to him during the reception if there is assigned seating.  Other than that, there is no need for you to talk with him or hang out with him during the wedding.  Just be cordial and if he gets chatty, tell him you need to find the bride because you have something she needs (lipstick, tissues, whatever) and walk away without waiting for a response.  Make sure your SO knows to avoid the BM completely, especially if he might get in a fight or be confrontational.

Post # 6
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819 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@eecuadrado:  I guess I really don’t see the issue here.. Yes, you two have a past but you said you’re both happy in your new relationships. Like PP said, you probably won’t even have to be around him that much. Don’t make it a bigger deal than what it is. You’re all adults.

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