so tired of this

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Why are you involving her so much? She is WAY too involved, IMO. You need to tell her to take a step back especially if you are paying for the wedding. As far as the wedding dress goes that may be touchy since she’s paying for it, but just stress to her that she wants you to be happy right?

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

ELOPE!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Ugh – sounds like you have a lot on your plate.

We are planning our OBX wedding now. FI’s mom called my mom, his siter, and spoke to him about how rude it was for us to how our wedding in the outer banks -NOT because of financial reasons/time- but because she wouldn’t have a date and wouldn’t consider staying w her sister (who is excited to come!) or bringing a friend.

She’s being a total B about the whole thing. If it wasn’t for everyone else’s support – we would be eloping – all of that nagging is way too much to handle.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

yikes. Time to move out. plan it how you want. If they don’t support that the heck with them. Who needs that? 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Why don’t you go ahead and just book what you and FH Want. Why o you need to run it by your mom and then get upset when she shoots it down. 

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